"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sophomore in HS- need help

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I am currently a sophomore in high school and am trying to talk to this one girl I am interested in. She and I are part of a specialty program within our high school, so we take three classes in common (Sociology, Global Affairs, and English, although I am not in her rotation, or period, so I only see her in the halls during the day). She's not majorly attractive or anything but she's cute and seems like a good person to be in a decent/serious enough relationship with. I have kinda had a thing for her since freshman year but have never really pursued it. So anyway, I do have her cell number and she and I have had a texting convo once (about a week ago) and we generally talk with each other when we're together. She and I usually tease each other/flirt, but it has never seemed like she's that interested romantically and I'm not sure how to get to that point. She (and I) are fairly intelligent and down to earth, not drama/jealous type like a typical high school girl/guy. Also, I would've asked her to homecoming or something but got caught up in a really drama-y girl, and long story short, I now know how not to get friend-zoned or be an emotional tampon. The only problem I've ever had is she's not really in the same friend circle as I am, although if I got to know her well enough it wouldn't be weird if she were to hang out with me and my friend circle. She's also not majorly more popular than me, so it's not like a relationship between us would be unrealistic. Any ideas on how to get to know her better/talk more/eventual date scenario thing? Thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Text her and say "Hey! Lets go to a movie/get ice cream/go to a park this weekend! I cant do Saturday, so friday or sunday?"

Simple as that homey. Try it out.

Make sure you kiss her on the first date.
 
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Well I mean I've never hung out with her in public, especially alone... you think I should just plant one on her the first time we would be hanging out together?
 
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Make sure you hint thats its a "date" in the text though... whether thats simply just adding the line 'just you and me?' otherwise it could get a bit weird
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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As soon as she gets there, treat it like a date. Take her arm and but on your's, give her kisses on the forehead, high-five her, or hug her whenever she does something cool. Just make sure to make her heart race every now and then, and touch her because the absence of those two things will definitely land you in the friend zone.

Good Luck!
 
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