"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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soo..... Who want's to play game?

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ok, some I'm reading somebody's post and decide to blatantly rip them off.

OK. Let's say we got some COLLEGE student's to 'race' to 50 approaches and write them down in this thread. We could trade stories and learn off each other's real field experience. BRILLIANT!

Seriously, If any college cats has the cojones to go against me, post up.

BTW, if you're lame enough to even THINK about fabricating a FR, just don't play. Believe me, I'll be reporting the good AND the bad.

Up to 50 using Nishbuk's and Deezy's rules, who's game?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by T Money
huh?
Nishbuk and Deezy dude!!! Montreal rollers! Those guys got some mad game.

I'm in T... I really got to up my game. I'm here to create myself. I been procrasting too much. Time to procreate myself.

Nishbuk and Deezy's 100 approach challenge!!!! YEAH!!! SARGE ON!!!
Why only 50 though? there's is a hundred, you got a small diconfidence problem?:p

Well here's the rules if anybody wasn't up to par with the current trend on sosuave...
An approach is an attempt to talk to a woman that:

1) YOU WOULD SLEEP WITH,
2) YOU DO NOT KNOW
3) TAKES PART IN FURTHERING THE CONVERSATION AT LEAST ONCE

That means
1) No HB5's who you would rather have as a friend and wouldn't drive you nuts, and would actually make you HARRRRRD.
2) No friends allowed, no second acquaintances, gotta be fresh girls, none of the stale LJBF->LFRN sarges. Those are for the oneitis sufferers out there.
3) She actually has to talk to you. As in seduce back, she's gotta know it's a sarge.
 

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Originally posted by ethnomethodologist
Nishbuk and Deezy dude!!! Montreal rollers! Those guys got some mad game.

I'm in T... I really got to up my game. I'm here to create myself. I been procrasting too much. Time to procreate myself.

Nishbuk and Deezy's 100 approach challenge!!!! YEAH!!! SARGE ON!!!
Why only 50 though? there's is a hundred, you got a small diconfidence problem?:p

Well here's the rules if anybody wasn't up to par with the current trend on sosuave...
An approach is an attempt to talk to a woman that:

1) YOU WOULD SLEEP WITH,
2) YOU DO NOT KNOW
3) TAKES PART IN FURTHERING THE CONVERSATION AT LEAST ONCE

That means
1) No HB5's who you would rather have as a friend and wouldn't drive you nuts, and would actually make you HARRRRRD.
2) No friends allowed, no second acquaintances, gotta be fresh girls, none of the stale LJBF->LFRN sarges. Those are for the oneitis sufferers out there.
3) She actually has to talk to you. As in seduce back, she's gotta know it's a sarge.
:rolleyes:


Fvcking canucks
 

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hmm.... I chose 50 because I didn't wanna scare anybody, plus less chance of people quitting in the middle. It starts this Thurs. so anybody else is still welcome to join.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm flattered, and I'm sure Dee-zy is as well. :)

But I have to set one thign straight. We're cool guys, fun guys, but by no means PUAs or DJs or whatever. But, unlike 90% of you ****tards, we are at least active, and are up to sarge pretty much anytime were free ! :D

Good luck guys.

My journal will probably continue HARDCORE after wednesday, which is when my family **** will settle hopefully...Priorities suck. Sometimes I wish I could take 6 months off of everything weighing down on me, and just sarge and have a good time. :)
 

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Players:

1.)Rex Man

2.)Ethno

Surely the board has more balls than this....

(BTW, Ethno the names RM not T and prepare to be smoked.)
 

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Be it by myself or with friends. I'm going to hit 50 quality approaches and write down the results.

Shoot 'er Down
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Oh man.
I'm totally in on this. I'm a university bloke too. Fifty it is! This is going to be ridiculous.
Recording the good and the bad is going to be brutal. The bad are bound to be absolutely wretched, probably nauseating, definitely not FR's to be read while eating breakfast. Let's get started!
 

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Let's do this
Derek as long as you're willing to report the good and the bad, I don't care

BTW, you're all getting burned


SOOOOO...............Let's get this fat b!tch started

#1 (In feminist class)

!!!!!Im not a feminist!!!!!!!

So I get to class intentionaly late, And I peep I an asian in the back I've never talked to b4.

I sit next to her and begin sneaking in dialogue (approx. summary)

RM: What's a syntax?

Asian girl: (looks through notes and tells me)

RM: (slight smile) your an international student I take it?

AG: No! I'm from Springfield!

RM: Do you know the Simpsons? (corny, but I'm naturally funny so I knew I'd get a laugh.

(at this point we have random dialogue but other girls are now noticing a semi-interesting convo and are jumping in. BTW we can do so much talking because we are split into groups and we're supposed to be talking)

End result: No close attempted but now looked at as social leader of class (how ironic).

49 left

Shoot 'er down

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Remember each rejection (and there will be many) will further devalue yourself and your ego. It's like sticking your chin out for a left hook.

With each rejection, you're down for the 8 count. How many times can you get up before being totally counted out?

The girlz should be *gaming* you. Your job is to be approachable and inquisitive.

By doing so many approaches, you are not the prize but a seeker of the prize.
 

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Originally posted by tmpgstx
Remember each rejection (and there will be many) will further devalue yourself and your ego. It's like sticking your chin out for a left hook.

With each rejection, you're down for the 8 count. How many times can you get up before being totally counted out?

The girlz should be *gaming* you. Your job is to be approachable and inquisitive.

By doing so many approaches, you are not the prize but a seeker of the prize.
Alright than bigshot, how the hell should a bootcamp play out than?

It's totally built around overcoming the fear of rejection. 100% of the DJ bootcamp in the bible is led in that direction.

What makes you so much better?

(risilience start planning... NOW)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Come on guys, let's not start that, that's not what this thread is for.

Tmpg, I value everyone's views and opinions but I would like to keep this thread clean so that we can do this game.

BTW if you want to talk, I'm down, just post a thread.
 

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eeehhhh sh** im an hour late i think- i still wanna get in on this though
 

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I wanted to go crazy at the club on fri. night. But, a girl called because she wanted to 'watch a movie' needless to say I did no approaches Fri.

BUT, I talked to the girl working at the rec to today"

Rex Man: What's up (looks at name tag) Nikki D?

Hb7.5: (smiles) no this isn't my name tag.

Rex Man: It's ok i'm not gonna stalk you

HB7.5: laughs, no I just didn't want to be an A**hole, my name's (christy)

RM: you look bored

(blah blah blah)

Manager walks up and just looks at me

RM:What's up.

Manager keeps looking at me saying nothing. I just walk off.

0 for 2!!!!!!!!!!

48 Mas!!!!!!!!!!
 

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i was a bum today and friday, but i did manage 2 make one conversation w/ an HB 8 at court Friday... i had a speeding ticket to contest (cause im a rebel like that :) )so while i waited i got my guts up and asked what she was here 4 etc... i got called away and chickened out 4 a number close... damn i prolly could have, next time im gonna man up... 49 to go
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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