"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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soo..... Who want's to play game?

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ok, some I'm reading somebody's post and decide to blatantly rip them off.

OK. Let's say we got some COLLEGE student's to 'race' to 50 approaches and write them down in this thread. We could trade stories and learn off each other's real field experience. BRILLIANT!

Seriously, If any college cats has the cojones to go against me, post up.

BTW, if you're lame enough to even THINK about fabricating a FR, just don't play. Believe me, I'll be reporting the good AND the bad.

Up to 50 using Nishbuk's and Deezy's rules, who's game?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by T Money
huh?
Nishbuk and Deezy dude!!! Montreal rollers! Those guys got some mad game.

I'm in T... I really got to up my game. I'm here to create myself. I been procrasting too much. Time to procreate myself.

Nishbuk and Deezy's 100 approach challenge!!!! YEAH!!! SARGE ON!!!
Why only 50 though? there's is a hundred, you got a small diconfidence problem?:p

Well here's the rules if anybody wasn't up to par with the current trend on sosuave...
An approach is an attempt to talk to a woman that:

1) YOU WOULD SLEEP WITH,
2) YOU DO NOT KNOW
3) TAKES PART IN FURTHERING THE CONVERSATION AT LEAST ONCE

That means
1) No HB5's who you would rather have as a friend and wouldn't drive you nuts, and would actually make you HARRRRRD.
2) No friends allowed, no second acquaintances, gotta be fresh girls, none of the stale LJBF->LFRN sarges. Those are for the oneitis sufferers out there.
3) She actually has to talk to you. As in seduce back, she's gotta know it's a sarge.
 

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Originally posted by ethnomethodologist
Nishbuk and Deezy dude!!! Montreal rollers! Those guys got some mad game.

I'm in T... I really got to up my game. I'm here to create myself. I been procrasting too much. Time to procreate myself.

Nishbuk and Deezy's 100 approach challenge!!!! YEAH!!! SARGE ON!!!
Why only 50 though? there's is a hundred, you got a small diconfidence problem?:p

Well here's the rules if anybody wasn't up to par with the current trend on sosuave...
An approach is an attempt to talk to a woman that:

1) YOU WOULD SLEEP WITH,
2) YOU DO NOT KNOW
3) TAKES PART IN FURTHERING THE CONVERSATION AT LEAST ONCE

That means
1) No HB5's who you would rather have as a friend and wouldn't drive you nuts, and would actually make you HARRRRRD.
2) No friends allowed, no second acquaintances, gotta be fresh girls, none of the stale LJBF->LFRN sarges. Those are for the oneitis sufferers out there.
3) She actually has to talk to you. As in seduce back, she's gotta know it's a sarge.
:rolleyes:


Fvcking canucks
 

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hmm.... I chose 50 because I didn't wanna scare anybody, plus less chance of people quitting in the middle. It starts this Thurs. so anybody else is still welcome to join.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm flattered, and I'm sure Dee-zy is as well. :)

But I have to set one thign straight. We're cool guys, fun guys, but by no means PUAs or DJs or whatever. But, unlike 90% of you ****tards, we are at least active, and are up to sarge pretty much anytime were free ! :D

Good luck guys.

My journal will probably continue HARDCORE after wednesday, which is when my family **** will settle hopefully...Priorities suck. Sometimes I wish I could take 6 months off of everything weighing down on me, and just sarge and have a good time. :)
 

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Players:

1.)Rex Man

2.)Ethno

Surely the board has more balls than this....

(BTW, Ethno the names RM not T and prepare to be smoked.)
 

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Be it by myself or with friends. I'm going to hit 50 quality approaches and write down the results.

Shoot 'er Down
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Oh man.
I'm totally in on this. I'm a university bloke too. Fifty it is! This is going to be ridiculous.
Recording the good and the bad is going to be brutal. The bad are bound to be absolutely wretched, probably nauseating, definitely not FR's to be read while eating breakfast. Let's get started!
 

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Let's do this
Derek as long as you're willing to report the good and the bad, I don't care

BTW, you're all getting burned


SOOOOO...............Let's get this fat b!tch started

#1 (In feminist class)

!!!!!Im not a feminist!!!!!!!

So I get to class intentionaly late, And I peep I an asian in the back I've never talked to b4.

I sit next to her and begin sneaking in dialogue (approx. summary)

RM: What's a syntax?

Asian girl: (looks through notes and tells me)

RM: (slight smile) your an international student I take it?

AG: No! I'm from Springfield!

RM: Do you know the Simpsons? (corny, but I'm naturally funny so I knew I'd get a laugh.

(at this point we have random dialogue but other girls are now noticing a semi-interesting convo and are jumping in. BTW we can do so much talking because we are split into groups and we're supposed to be talking)

End result: No close attempted but now looked at as social leader of class (how ironic).

49 left

Shoot 'er down

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Remember each rejection (and there will be many) will further devalue yourself and your ego. It's like sticking your chin out for a left hook.

With each rejection, you're down for the 8 count. How many times can you get up before being totally counted out?

The girlz should be *gaming* you. Your job is to be approachable and inquisitive.

By doing so many approaches, you are not the prize but a seeker of the prize.
 

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Originally posted by tmpgstx
Remember each rejection (and there will be many) will further devalue yourself and your ego. It's like sticking your chin out for a left hook.

With each rejection, you're down for the 8 count. How many times can you get up before being totally counted out?

The girlz should be *gaming* you. Your job is to be approachable and inquisitive.

By doing so many approaches, you are not the prize but a seeker of the prize.
Alright than bigshot, how the hell should a bootcamp play out than?

It's totally built around overcoming the fear of rejection. 100% of the DJ bootcamp in the bible is led in that direction.

What makes you so much better?

(risilience start planning... NOW)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Come on guys, let's not start that, that's not what this thread is for.

Tmpg, I value everyone's views and opinions but I would like to keep this thread clean so that we can do this game.

BTW if you want to talk, I'm down, just post a thread.
 

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eeehhhh sh** im an hour late i think- i still wanna get in on this though
 

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I wanted to go crazy at the club on fri. night. But, a girl called because she wanted to 'watch a movie' needless to say I did no approaches Fri.

BUT, I talked to the girl working at the rec to today"

Rex Man: What's up (looks at name tag) Nikki D?

Hb7.5: (smiles) no this isn't my name tag.

Rex Man: It's ok i'm not gonna stalk you

HB7.5: laughs, no I just didn't want to be an A**hole, my name's (christy)

RM: you look bored

(blah blah blah)

Manager walks up and just looks at me

RM:What's up.

Manager keeps looking at me saying nothing. I just walk off.

0 for 2!!!!!!!!!!

48 Mas!!!!!!!!!!
 

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i was a bum today and friday, but i did manage 2 make one conversation w/ an HB 8 at court Friday... i had a speeding ticket to contest (cause im a rebel like that :) )so while i waited i got my guts up and asked what she was here 4 etc... i got called away and chickened out 4 a number close... damn i prolly could have, next time im gonna man up... 49 to go
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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