"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Soo.. I have the cure for heartbreak now.

Chev.Chelios

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LITERALLY found out the cure for heartbreak and devastation over breakups that linger on for years :)
ask me anything.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I thought the consensus answer to this was "Fvck ten women hotter than your ex".
 

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I thought the consensus answer to this was "Fvck ten women hotter than your ex".
This worked for me. But not even ten women. Like two women.
 

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How do you cure it?
 

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For some reason, if I did EVERYTHING wrong with a chick, completely pandered, invested, tried ‘opening myself’ for her, etc. and she tried to break my heart, then it wouldn’t happen. I just don’t feel heartbreak. I’m super happy about that actually. Even in my afc days, I wasn’t able to get heartbroken. It baffles me why this is really because I don’t fully understand it. But I’m not complaining.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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