Chev.Chelios
Master Don Juan
LITERALLY found out the cure for heartbreak and devastation over breakups that linger on for years 
ask me anything.
ask me anything.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Soo.. I have the cure for heartbreak now.
- Thread starter Chev.Chelios
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
logicallefty
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This worked for me. But not even ten women. Like two women.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
For some reason, if I did EVERYTHING wrong with a chick, completely pandered, invested, tried ‘opening myself’ for her, etc. and she tried to break my heart, then it wouldn’t happen. I just don’t feel heartbreak. I’m super happy about that actually. Even in my afc days, I wasn’t able to get heartbroken. It baffles me why this is really because I don’t fully understand it. But I’m not complaining.
So what’s new?
So what’s new?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
JohnChops
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This. Getting over that hurdle to forget that girl and go fvck those ten other women is the hard part.