"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Songs you play before going out?

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As in bars, clubs or just plain sarging.


If I'm getting hyped up for a party and pregaming, for example-


We Made it- Drake and Soulja Boy

Wild Boy- MGK and Waka Flaka

Anything from Lil Wayne, Ice Cube or Eminem



If I'm in a more laid back mood- I personally prefer an old school approach, a few examples-

Big Poppa- Notorious BIG

How do you want it- Tupac, KC and Jojo

Eazy E- Boyz in the Hood

Outkast- So fresh and so clean

Area Codes- Ludacris and Nate Dogg

Drake- 5 am in Toronto (not old school but it's on my playlist)



I'm pretty interested in what y'all play, I wouldn't mind tryin out some other stuff.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm a DJ... Here are some new(er) bangers

Rap:
Juicy j - bounce it
Travis porter - Rollin around
Logic - alright
Logic - break it down
Lil Wayne - d'usse
Drake - 2on/thotful
Drake lil Wayne - believe me
School boy q - man of the year
School boy q - weed and brews
Yo gotti - standing in the Kitchen
Yo gotti - Lebron James
Bohagon and yo gotti - what it is
Lil durk - bang bros
Mac miller - Insomniak
MGK - sail
MGK - runnin
K Camp - Cut her off
Fabolous - foreigners
Juicy j - all I blow is loud
Juicy j - money a do it
Fabolous - when I feel like it
Pusha t - trust you
King los - why you so mad
King los - woke up like this




Let me know if you dig and ill PM you more...
 
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Wayne Marshall - Hot In The Club

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zHTcrEhwJv4

Fabolous - Body Ya

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hXNeu-H3Tog

DJ Infamous Ft. Young Jeezy, Ludacris, Juicy J, The Game and Hitmaka - Double Cup

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1v8LuitybxA

T-Pain Ft. B.o.B - Up Down (Do This All Day)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=45Q4Zk3CN8k

Kid Ink Ft. Chris Brown - Show Me

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4fWTGZYOZSc

Joe Moses Ft. YG, TeeCee4800, Mils, A.D. & Relly Dusto - Wet

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dqt5ATpubAg

French Montana - Everything Is A Go (Remix)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oayqa47W5U0

Styles P Ft. Busta Rhymes & Rick Ross - Harsh

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bBmsrj2kOIo

Kanye West - Power

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ouwCWDbBskU

DMX Ft. MGK - I Don't Dance

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pAv7L3HnV1k

Jay-Z Ft. Rick Ross - Fvck With Me You Know I Got It

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QZgZVl-V-Bk

Ace Hood Ft. T-Pain - King Of The Streets

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mOUW_50InLY
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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2 am - Adrian marcel

Slide thru - Rayven justice

Slip n slide - Jon hart
 
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Love this, can't be bothered to hook up my playlist, I'll get on it tho. Nice!
 
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Two of my favorites and im younger are... Beat It by Michael Jackson, Double vision and Urgent by Foreigner
 
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MidnightCity said:
i remember when dancehall was big in my early 20s. we made that genre popular.

im feelin some of this new EDM stuff though. lotta rappers sampling their beats.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cb1q6vcL510
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6RlfN8bqaw8
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_MA98UboikE
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v2tygV0zDmQ

raps been really dull lately. wayne and drake are a joke. drake gets good beats though. the last real rapper was 50 IMO
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The Midnight City bass though. Enough to get any party started.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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D aft Punk. "Get L uc ky"

It's motivating and highly dance-able with a disco/hustle beat :).

Also, I like the following:

Ne-yo and Pitbull "Give me everything"

Flo-rida "The club can't even handle me."

Jason Derulo "In my head."

Forgive me if I get the artists mixed up. I'm old lol.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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