"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Songs you play before going out?

Gray The Prince

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As in bars, clubs or just plain sarging.


If I'm getting hyped up for a party and pregaming, for example-


We Made it- Drake and Soulja Boy

Wild Boy- MGK and Waka Flaka

Anything from Lil Wayne, Ice Cube or Eminem



If I'm in a more laid back mood- I personally prefer an old school approach, a few examples-

Big Poppa- Notorious BIG

How do you want it- Tupac, KC and Jojo

Eazy E- Boyz in the Hood

Outkast- So fresh and so clean

Area Codes- Ludacris and Nate Dogg

Drake- 5 am in Toronto (not old school but it's on my playlist)



I'm pretty interested in what y'all play, I wouldn't mind tryin out some other stuff.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm a DJ... Here are some new(er) bangers

Rap:
Juicy j - bounce it
Travis porter - Rollin around
Logic - alright
Logic - break it down
Lil Wayne - d'usse
Drake - 2on/thotful
Drake lil Wayne - believe me
School boy q - man of the year
School boy q - weed and brews
Yo gotti - standing in the Kitchen
Yo gotti - Lebron James
Bohagon and yo gotti - what it is
Lil durk - bang bros
Mac miller - Insomniak
MGK - sail
MGK - runnin
K Camp - Cut her off
Fabolous - foreigners
Juicy j - all I blow is loud
Juicy j - money a do it
Fabolous - when I feel like it
Pusha t - trust you
King los - why you so mad
King los - woke up like this




Let me know if you dig and ill PM you more...
 

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Wayne Marshall - Hot In The Club

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zHTcrEhwJv4

Fabolous - Body Ya

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hXNeu-H3Tog

DJ Infamous Ft. Young Jeezy, Ludacris, Juicy J, The Game and Hitmaka - Double Cup

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1v8LuitybxA

T-Pain Ft. B.o.B - Up Down (Do This All Day)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=45Q4Zk3CN8k

Kid Ink Ft. Chris Brown - Show Me

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4fWTGZYOZSc

Joe Moses Ft. YG, TeeCee4800, Mils, A.D. & Relly Dusto - Wet

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dqt5ATpubAg

French Montana - Everything Is A Go (Remix)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oayqa47W5U0

Styles P Ft. Busta Rhymes & Rick Ross - Harsh

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bBmsrj2kOIo

Kanye West - Power

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ouwCWDbBskU

DMX Ft. MGK - I Don't Dance

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pAv7L3HnV1k

Jay-Z Ft. Rick Ross - Fvck With Me You Know I Got It

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QZgZVl-V-Bk

Ace Hood Ft. T-Pain - King Of The Streets

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mOUW_50InLY
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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2 am - Adrian marcel

Slide thru - Rayven justice

Slip n slide - Jon hart
 

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Love this, can't be bothered to hook up my playlist, I'll get on it tho. Nice!
 

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Two of my favorites and im younger are... Beat It by Michael Jackson, Double vision and Urgent by Foreigner
 

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MidnightCity said:
i remember when dancehall was big in my early 20s. we made that genre popular.

im feelin some of this new EDM stuff though. lotta rappers sampling their beats.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cb1q6vcL510
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6RlfN8bqaw8
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_MA98UboikE
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v2tygV0zDmQ

raps been really dull lately. wayne and drake are a joke. drake gets good beats though. the last real rapper was 50 IMO
The Midnight City bass though. Enough to get any party started.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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D aft Punk. "Get L uc ky"

It's motivating and highly dance-able with a disco/hustle beat :).

Also, I like the following:

Ne-yo and Pitbull "Give me everything"

Flo-rida "The club can't even handle me."

Jason Derulo "In my head."

Forgive me if I get the artists mixed up. I'm old lol.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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