"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Songs to improve your life

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Looks all the songs that come out these days are totally bull**** and girly. They talk about love, sex, heartbreaks, romance but none about reality, about motivation, about improving yourself.

Anyways I have a small list of songs which has helped me improve my mindset a little. Feel free to expand this list.

Lighters: Bad Meets Evil -
Not Afraid: Eminem -
Remember the name: Fort Minor -
My Life: 50 Cent - https://youtu.be/cN4fNaUAMbA

Anyone knows more?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'll throw a few out there, while also admitting that I do love me some R&B. Al Greene, Jodeci, Bobby Brown, etc., but some notable manly chit... Metallica, Megadeth, GnR, STP, Pantera, Lamb of God, Thirteen Bled Promises, Missouri Quiet, N.W.A, Pac, I Shall Devour, Ozzy, Skynyrd, Pearl Jam, Bush. This is probably my go to, when I need to get my head on straight though...
 

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I was thinking about making a similar thread a few days ago when I found some old cds. This song definitely stood out as something that goes with what is taught here

 

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Too much to list.

Don’t worry about whether a song is beta or whatever. That’s nonsense. Just because Santa isn’t real doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy the festivities

As long as a song is making you feel something it’s a good song. Some make you think some make you feel like you can run through a brick wall. Your mind will tell you what you need the most

Judging by your songs listed, I think you’d like this one. Was always a fan of Miguel and this always puts me in a good mood

I’m always changing the songs in my signature though I’m not sure if the links appear if you’re viewing through a smart phone
Love miguel, Sure Thing is a GOAT track, as is Adorn


STILL BALLIN

 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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