"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Songs to get your mind right!

dutchmaster

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Hello all. I've came along way from being an AFC for a long time, but sometimes I still have flashes of my chump behavior. I can identify it's chumpish and telling myself to stop it just doesn't cut it sometimes. So personally I have some songs that promote the right state of mind. I only listen to hip hop so everything I post will be rap related but if we could get a bunch of songs here going because I'm sure there are others like me who can easily have their moods influenced by music so lets go! Wouldn't mind expanding my library either.

my favorite:"I'm on my business, it costs to keep my attention. If they tripping I dismiss them there's not a flaw in my pimping no sir." Many more quoateables
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fUQpuUhy2T0

2nd favorite: "You know I thug em **** em love em leave em cuz I dont ****in need em" "
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xb8T4xIa3o4
another off the top of my head:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jF9ZFDLvm8

how can i forget this gem
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=baOh2vmLO48
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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AlphaNate

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Okay. :rockon:

These songs get girls up and dancing, which in turn riles me up. So listening to these get my mind on targets.

Usher - Yeah!

Buckcherry - Crazy B*tch

A song about confidence. Plus it's Pantera. Very alpha.

Pantera - A New Level

"Dr. Feelgood"? Why that's us PUA's!

Mötley Crüe - Dr. Feelgood

A finely tailored suit is to a woman what lingerie is to a man. Don't forget it.

ZZ Top - Sharp Dressed Man

Anti-oneitis extreme.

Jay-Z - On to the Next One

Sometimes nothing but gangster f*cking rap will do.

Notorious B.I.G. - Long Kiss Goodnight

This funk just makes me feel seductive.

Stevie Wonder - Superstitious

A player ANTHEM.

Jay-Z - Girls, Girls, Girls pt. 2
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I prefer to listen to whole albums. Preferably non-mainstream rap.

Anything by Too $hort with do the trick. Spice1's album 'The Black Bossalini', also will do the trick. And the more vulgar/graphic Too $hort gets, the better imho. Too short is always talkin about b*tches and how to deal with them. It will get you into a no-nonsense mindstate. He talks a lot about double standards.

For example: "you ever had a one night stand and went to church the next day?", just to illustrate how females think.

Check it out.

Listen to this as well
 
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