"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Songs to get your mind right!

dutchmaster

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Hello all. I've came along way from being an AFC for a long time, but sometimes I still have flashes of my chump behavior. I can identify it's chumpish and telling myself to stop it just doesn't cut it sometimes. So personally I have some songs that promote the right state of mind. I only listen to hip hop so everything I post will be rap related but if we could get a bunch of songs here going because I'm sure there are others like me who can easily have their moods influenced by music so lets go! Wouldn't mind expanding my library either.

my favorite:"I'm on my business, it costs to keep my attention. If they tripping I dismiss them there's not a flaw in my pimping no sir." Many more quoateables
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fUQpuUhy2T0

2nd favorite: "You know I thug em **** em love em leave em cuz I dont ****in need em" "
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xb8T4xIa3o4
another off the top of my head:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jF9ZFDLvm8

how can i forget this gem
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=baOh2vmLO48
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Okay. :rockon:

These songs get girls up and dancing, which in turn riles me up. So listening to these get my mind on targets.

Usher - Yeah!

Buckcherry - Crazy B*tch

A song about confidence. Plus it's Pantera. Very alpha.

Pantera - A New Level

"Dr. Feelgood"? Why that's us PUA's!

Mötley Crüe - Dr. Feelgood

A finely tailored suit is to a woman what lingerie is to a man. Don't forget it.

ZZ Top - Sharp Dressed Man

Anti-oneitis extreme.

Jay-Z - On to the Next One

Sometimes nothing but gangster f*cking rap will do.

Notorious B.I.G. - Long Kiss Goodnight

This funk just makes me feel seductive.

Stevie Wonder - Superstitious

A player ANTHEM.

Jay-Z - Girls, Girls, Girls pt. 2
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I prefer to listen to whole albums. Preferably non-mainstream rap.

Anything by Too $hort with do the trick. Spice1's album 'The Black Bossalini', also will do the trick. And the more vulgar/graphic Too $hort gets, the better imho. Too short is always talkin about b*tches and how to deal with them. It will get you into a no-nonsense mindstate. He talks a lot about double standards.

For example: "you ever had a one night stand and went to church the next day?", just to illustrate how females think.

Check it out.

Listen to this as well
 
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