"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Songs to get your mind right!

dutchmaster

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Hello all. I've came along way from being an AFC for a long time, but sometimes I still have flashes of my chump behavior. I can identify it's chumpish and telling myself to stop it just doesn't cut it sometimes. So personally I have some songs that promote the right state of mind. I only listen to hip hop so everything I post will be rap related but if we could get a bunch of songs here going because I'm sure there are others like me who can easily have their moods influenced by music so lets go! Wouldn't mind expanding my library either.

my favorite:"I'm on my business, it costs to keep my attention. If they tripping I dismiss them there's not a flaw in my pimping no sir." Many more quoateables
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fUQpuUhy2T0

2nd favorite: "You know I thug em **** em love em leave em cuz I dont ****in need em" "
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xb8T4xIa3o4
another off the top of my head:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jF9ZFDLvm8

how can i forget this gem
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=baOh2vmLO48
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Okay. :rockon:

These songs get girls up and dancing, which in turn riles me up. So listening to these get my mind on targets.

Usher - Yeah!

Buckcherry - Crazy B*tch

A song about confidence. Plus it's Pantera. Very alpha.

Pantera - A New Level

"Dr. Feelgood"? Why that's us PUA's!

Mötley Crüe - Dr. Feelgood

A finely tailored suit is to a woman what lingerie is to a man. Don't forget it.

ZZ Top - Sharp Dressed Man

Anti-oneitis extreme.

Jay-Z - On to the Next One

Sometimes nothing but gangster f*cking rap will do.

Notorious B.I.G. - Long Kiss Goodnight

This funk just makes me feel seductive.

Stevie Wonder - Superstitious

A player ANTHEM.

Jay-Z - Girls, Girls, Girls pt. 2
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I prefer to listen to whole albums. Preferably non-mainstream rap.

Anything by Too $hort with do the trick. Spice1's album 'The Black Bossalini', also will do the trick. And the more vulgar/graphic Too $hort gets, the better imho. Too short is always talkin about b*tches and how to deal with them. It will get you into a no-nonsense mindstate. He talks a lot about double standards.

For example: "you ever had a one night stand and went to church the next day?", just to illustrate how females think.

Check it out.

Listen to this as well
 
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