"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Songs to Get You Pumped for Workout

johnrambo

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I recommend No Easy Way Out as playlist for your workout. The killer chorus pumps you up for action! Feel free to add yours.

 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Black Angels (psych rock)

Earl Sweatshirt (alt/hard rap)

Royal Blood (hard rock)

Massive Attack (trip hop) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W6ldHDrQ_no

^^^ all good choices if you aren't into heavy metal. I also listen to these while on my motorcycle if I feel like dying.
 
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Dreams and Nightmares Meek Mill
Wins n losses meek mill
Really anything by meek mill
Roses imanbek remix / stJhn
 

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I have a two minute audio clip of Joey Diaz ranting while the national anthem is playing in the background that I listen to at the start of every workout.
 

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I personally like to listen to "Run for your life" by The Siege during my workouts. I also like to listen to BGM from actions movies. The beat drop after the build up in the song really moativates me to get that last mile or last rep in. Granted the timing of your rep and the music needs to match haha
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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