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song name: self esteem
its by offspring
song name: self esteem
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
good idea, was gonna do the same.Originally posted by MetalFortress
How about posting something that helps us, like songs for DJs?
I'll start:
ESPN - Playmakers theme song
Jay-Z - Dirt Off Your Shoulder
Saliva - Survival of the Sickest
Judas Priest - Revolution
Big and Rich - Save a Horse, Ride a Cowboy
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Brand New - Me vs. Maradona vs. ElvisOriginally posted by MetalFortress
How about posting something that helps us, like songs for DJs?
I'll start:
ESPN - Playmakers theme song
Jay-Z - Dirt Off Your Shoulder
Saliva - Survival of the Sickest
Judas Priest - Revolution
Big and Rich - Save a Horse, Ride a Cowboy