Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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song for afcs

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just pick about anything by Brian Ferry he's master at AFC anthems. Check out songs like "Slave for love" and "Jealous Kind"....
 

Lost In Translation

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best song i have ever heard for AFCs is HELLO by Lionel Richie

I've been alone with you inside my mind
And in my dreams I've kissed your lips a thousand times
I sometimes see you pass outside my door
Hello, is it me you're looking for?


I can see it in your eyes
I can see it in your smile
You're all I've ever wanted, (and) my arms are open wide
'Cause you know just what to say
And you know just what to do
And I want to tell you so much, I love you ...


I long to see the sunlight in your hair
And tell you time and time again how much I care
Sometimes I feel my heart will overflow
Hello, I've just got to let you know


'Cause I wonder where you are
And I wonder what you do
Are you somewhere feeling lonely, or is someone loving you?
Tell me how to win your heart
For I haven't got a clue
But let me start by saying, I love you ...


Hello, is it me you're looking for?
'Cause I wonder where you are
And I wonder what you do
Are you somewhere feeling lonely or is someone loving you?
Tell me how to win your heart
For I haven't got a clue
But let me start by saying ... I love you


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

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Bryan Ferry

JEALOUS GUY

I was dreaming of the past, and my heart was beating fast.
I bagan to lose control, I began to lose control.
I didn't mean to hurt you. I'm sorry that I made you cry.
Oh no, I didn't mean to hurt you. I'm yust a jealous guy.
I was feeling insecure you might not love me anymore.
I was shivering inside, I was shivering inside.
I didn't mean ...
I was trying to catch your eyes, though that you was trying to hide.
I was swallowing my pain, I was swallowing my pain.
I didn't mean ...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Its a good Song by the Police but its really AFC! Sounds like a guy being tormented after a girl left him and all he does is think about her or follow her around and he doesn't want to move on.

Every Breath You Take


Every breath you take
Every move you make
Every bond you break
Every step you take
Ill be watching you
Every single day
Every word you say
Every game you play
Every night you stay
Ill be watching you
Every move you make
Every vow you break
Every smile you fake
Every claim you stake
Ill be watching you
Since you’ve been gone I been lost without a trace
I dream at night I can only see your face
I look around but its you I cant replace
I feel so cold and I long for your embrace
I keep crying baby, baby, please
O cant you see
You belong to me
How my poor heart aches
With every breath you take
Every move you make
Every vow you break
Every smile you fake
Every claim you stake
Every move you make
Every step you take
Ill be watching you


EXCUSE ME I HAVE TO GO GET A TISSUE, I MISS MY EX!!!! :cry:
 

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master of puppets by metallica
defy you by the offspring
lol i dont care if self esteem is a afc song,its still a sickk azz song
 

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
How about posting something that helps us, like songs for DJs?

I'll start:

ESPN - Playmakers theme song
Jay-Z - Dirt Off Your Shoulder
Saliva - Survival of the Sickest
Judas Priest - Revolution
Big and Rich - Save a Horse, Ride a Cowboy
good idea, was gonna do the same.
 

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Well, since he mentioned The Offspring...

Check out the album's namesake song, "Smash", also happens to be the song at the end. This guy is, at worst, RAFC.


Head over heals I've fit in before
Now I don't want to do it no more
I've held it all in with blood on my face

Built it up man so bad you can taste
I don't slag no one
I don't even judge
Don't give a fvck cause I'm not gonna budge
I just want to be who I want to be
Guess that's hard for others to see

I'm not a trendy a$$hole
I do what I want
I do what I feel like
I'm not a trendy a$$hole
I don't give a fvck if it's good enough for you

Cause I'm alive

Smash is the way you feel all alone
Like an outcast you're out on your own
Smash is the way you deal with your life
Like an outcast you're smashing your strife

Head over heals I've fit in before
Now I don't want to do it no more
I just want to be who I want to be
Guess that's hard for others to see
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Nine Inch Nails
"Thats What I get"

Just when everything was making sense.
You took away all my self-confidence.
Now all that I’ve been hearing must be true.
I guess I’m not the only boy for you.

But that’s what I get
That’s what I get
That’s what I get
That’s what I get

How could you turn us into this?
After you just taught me how to kiss you.
I told you I’d never say goodbye.
Now I’m slipping on the tears you made me cry.

But that’s what I get
That’s what I get
That’s what I get
That’s what I get

Why does it come as a surprise.
To think that I was so naive.
Maybe didn’t mean so much.
But it meant everything to me.

But that’s what I get
That’s what I get
That’s what I get
That’s what I get
 

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Man! Some hard AFC acts to follow with some of those songs, but SIMPLE PLAN have got to be the whiniest band on the radio.

Often it is refreshing to hear songs that have absolutely NOTHING to do with women, like:

ALL ALONG THE WATCHTOWER
(Jimi Hendrix version.... originally by Bob Dylan)

There must be some kind a way outta here
said the joker to the thief
There's too much confusion
I can't get no relief
Business men they drink my wine plowmen dig my earth
None will level on the vine nobody of it is worth Hey!

(solo 1)

No reason to get excited the thief he kindly spoke
There are many here among us who feel that life is but a joke.
But you and I we've been through that and this is not our fate.
So let us not talk falsely now the hours gettin' late.

(solo 2)

All along the watchtower princes kept the view
While all the women came and went bare feet servants too
Outside in the cold distance a wild cat did growl
Two riders were approaching and the wind began to howl

(outro)


Okay, so he mentioned 'women' once.
 

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
How about posting something that helps us, like songs for DJs?

I'll start:

ESPN - Playmakers theme song
Jay-Z - Dirt Off Your Shoulder
Saliva - Survival of the Sickest
Judas Priest - Revolution
Big and Rich - Save a Horse, Ride a Cowboy
Brand New - Me vs. Maradona vs. Elvis
 
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