"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SOM's Workout Journal: MIND OVER PAIN!!!

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Don Juan
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Im getting back into bodybuilding and just overall weight lifting. Ive been busy with track(Went to state finals) So im a bit rusty on my lifts, my squat was hit the most.

Im going to start off with a custom workout ive made, which derived from SS.
Then once i get back my initial strength ill move on to my other workout routines(Hypertrophy)

First time back to gym and hitting the iron hard felt pretty good... Its nice to not run for a change hehe...

MONDAY
Bench 5x5
Incline Bench 5x5
Deadlift 5x5
Push Press 3x5
Dips 3x8

As i got to the push presses i was pretty tired but fortanately its one of my favorite lifts. I pretty much hit the main bodyparts twice a week.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeah but im not a novice, my cns can handle it. I only follow this program for maximum of 8-11 weeks. And then follow more of a hypertrophy program.
 
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