"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sometimes your games can backfire...

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always remember that game is a means to an end, don't give up on a sure thing just to be aloof or disinterested

ask her out if you think she'll say yes, have sex with her if you think she'll let you

don't game for the sake of gaming, game to get the girl and once you've got her STOP FOR A SECOND, think, then turn it back on as necessary
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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devilkingx2 said:
always remember that game is a means to an end, don't give up on a sure thing Are you sure there is such a thing as 'sure thing' when it comes to a woman? just to be aloof or disinterested

ask her out if you think she'll say yes, have sex with her if you think she'll let you This sort of mentality is the base of AFCism as far as i'm concerned. I don't expect from a woman to let me do anything, as if i'm dependent of her approval. I assume, no, I KNOW that i'm the source of fun and games and that she ought to take on the challenge. Same rule applies in LTRs as well. You are or you will be treated poorly if you're in the 'if she lets me' mentality.

don't game for the sake of gaming, game to get the girl and once you've got her STOP FOR A SECOND, think, then turn it back on as necessarysometimes you got to push the girl away in order to get her. Too much thinking stumps spontaneity. My take on this would be to act as if you always have the girl.
 
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