"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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^did you know that posting your email in it's entirity like that will get you spam from bots crawling the web?

on-topic:

always remember that game is a means to an end, don't give up on a sure thing just to be aloof or disinterested

ask her out if you think she'll say yes, have sex with her if you think she'll let you

don't game for the sake of gaming, game to get the girl and once you've got her STOP FOR A SECOND, think, then turn it back on as necessary
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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devilkingx2 said:
always remember that game is a means to an end, don't give up on a sure thing Are you sure there is such a thing as 'sure thing' when it comes to a woman? just to be aloof or disinterested

ask her out if you think she'll say yes, have sex with her if you think she'll let you This sort of mentality is the base of AFCism as far as i'm concerned. I don't expect from a woman to let me do anything, as if i'm dependent of her approval. I assume, no, I KNOW that i'm the source of fun and games and that she ought to take on the challenge. Same rule applies in LTRs as well. You are or you will be treated poorly if you're in the 'if she lets me' mentality.

don't game for the sake of gaming, game to get the girl and once you've got her STOP FOR A SECOND, think, then turn it back on as necessarysometimes you got to push the girl away in order to get her. Too much thinking stumps spontaneity. My take on this would be to act as if you always have the girl.
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