"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Sometimes they ARE looking...

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Yesterday I briefly stopped by the bookstore to see my sister at work. There was a hot girl (HB7-8) working there that really caught my eye, however I couldn't seem to catch her attention. As far as I could tell she never looked at me or made eye contact with me, so I couldn't approach and let loose with my wit and charm. I figured this girl was just busy, didn't notice me while I was visiting my sister, or didn't find me attractive

Later that night I was hanging out with my sister back at her place and she casually said:

"By the way, this girl xxx from my work told me she thinks you're hot. Actually, she told me I could tell you that."

ME (of course): "Wow! Which girl is this?"

She described the exact same HB8 I was interested in.

Moral of the story: Sometimes women are checking you out, feeling out your vibe/attitude, and generally being attracted to you and won't even let you know.

Guess I should have cold approached this chick. I could have assumed she was already attracted to me and gone with the flow. AND I would have been right!

Cheers fellas!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Well aru at least your in......i hate it when they do that
 
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Originally posted by Aru
Yesterday I briefly stopped by the bookstore to see my sister at work. There was a hot girl (HB7-8) working there that really caught my eye, however I couldn't seem to catch her attention. As far as I could tell she never looked at me or made eye contact with me, so I couldn't approach and let loose with my wit and charm. I figured this girl was just busy, didn't notice me while I was visiting my sister, or didn't find me attractive

Later that night I was hanging out with my sister back at her place and she casually said:

"By the way, this girl xxx from my work told me she thinks you're hot. Actually, she told me I could tell you that."

ME (of course): "Wow! Which girl is this?"

She described the exact same HB8 I was interested in.

Moral of the story: Sometimes women are checking you out, feeling out your vibe/attitude, and generally being attracted to you and won't even let you know.

Guess I should have cold approached this chick. I could have assumed she was already attracted to me and gone with the flow. AND I would have been right!

Cheers fellas!
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WTF???
Of course they check you out! Especially if they notice you checking them out (and the DO notice even if you never get EC with her).Even the women who do not look at you while walking in the opposite direction look at you in the very last possible moment while passing you (watch out for this).
If you think a girl is hot,approach her!!! I have been swimming in the same pool with one girl for nearly 6 month. She never looked at me.I never dared to talk to her. One day I did... ice broken..!
 
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bah just talk to them anyway, don't have to make ec first. For a guy with my looks it's not gonna happen any other way anyways.:D







































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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Something similar to this happened to me last semester. This really hot girl that I saw in the hallways always seemed to be talking to somebody and when I would pass her I felt totally invisible. Never saw her look at me once. At the end of the semester one of her friends told me that she thought I was hot. I was blown away because like I said I never even saw her look at me. It was too late for me to make a move though because she was gone:(

Moral of the story, if you see a girl you like, approach.
 
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something similar happend to me, went on a blind date with this chick but she wanted to meet up at her apt on campus.

so there i am sittin there with my friend with a case of beer one HB8 my blind date and her friend an HB9

anyways, i'm drinking a beer thinkin these girls are totally turned off by me or my friend or whatever the case needless to say they "have to do something" that "just came up"

anyway i NEXT'ed her right then and there, few days later she calls up, why haven't you called or anything we miss you. my friend thinks you were really hot.

i was like whaaaaaaaat?

i guess i missed every single sign they were sending out

ANOTHER story

Blonde chick i meet at bob evans, because my job was right next to it so i ate there for lunch almost everyday.

anyway we talk flirt etc.. i see her at my job that same day, and i'm like jessica? she's like yeah i'll wait for you take your time.. so i take a quick break to talk to her she flirts i even kino'ed her

but for some weird ass reason i didn't close for a # i thought i would see her again. I never did she apparently quit bob evans that day she came into my job :mad:
 
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