"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Sometimes it's more fun to eat than hunt...

Ricky

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2002
Messages
4,140
Reaction score
899
Age
52
Guys, I broke up with my gf of 3 years a bit ago and it sucks.

Anyways I had no absence of new prospects and have been having a great time dating one.

I came to the realization today that though I love meeting new girls (i.e. hunting), I would much rather enjoy the fruits of the labor (i.e. eating). Sometimes all the hunting takes way too much time and energy.

Right now other than this girl I just don't want to take all the time to hunt for now. It takes alot of energy. I don't necessarily have oneitis for this one girl, I simply don't have time to date some of the others!

In the meantime I am working hard to finish a graduate degree. I'll most likely be moving soon so I am just going to enjoy life day to day like it is meant to be.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

penkitten

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2001
Messages
8,256
Reaction score
236
Age
49
Location
at our house
ricky.. dude..
what did you eat before you posted that?
 

Ricky

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2002
Messages
4,140
Reaction score
899
Age
52
Guess penkitten

And it was great!
 
Top