"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sometimes it's more fun to eat than hunt...

Ricky

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Guys, I broke up with my gf of 3 years a bit ago and it sucks.

Anyways I had no absence of new prospects and have been having a great time dating one.

I came to the realization today that though I love meeting new girls (i.e. hunting), I would much rather enjoy the fruits of the labor (i.e. eating). Sometimes all the hunting takes way too much time and energy.

Right now other than this girl I just don't want to take all the time to hunt for now. It takes alot of energy. I don't necessarily have oneitis for this one girl, I simply don't have time to date some of the others!

In the meantime I am working hard to finish a graduate degree. I'll most likely be moving soon so I am just going to enjoy life day to day like it is meant to be.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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penkitten

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ricky.. dude..
what did you eat before you posted that?
 

Ricky

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Guess penkitten

And it was great!
 
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