"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Sometimes it's more fun to eat than hunt...

Ricky

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Guys, I broke up with my gf of 3 years a bit ago and it sucks.

Anyways I had no absence of new prospects and have been having a great time dating one.

I came to the realization today that though I love meeting new girls (i.e. hunting), I would much rather enjoy the fruits of the labor (i.e. eating). Sometimes all the hunting takes way too much time and energy.

Right now other than this girl I just don't want to take all the time to hunt for now. It takes alot of energy. I don't necessarily have oneitis for this one girl, I simply don't have time to date some of the others!

In the meantime I am working hard to finish a graduate degree. I'll most likely be moving soon so I am just going to enjoy life day to day like it is meant to be.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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penkitten

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ricky.. dude..
what did you eat before you posted that?
 

Ricky

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Guess penkitten

And it was great!
 
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