"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Something you will not find out until banging lots of babes.

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This is something I hate about the game, like a drug, you eventually develop resistance.

I haven't yet found that special woman that rocks my world and makes me want to settle down. I have been in LTRs with HB9s that I eventually got tired of having sex with, I moved on.

Yes, I think most guys eventually get tired of hitting the same piece and need to move on, but are too chicken sh1t to move on.

The question now in my mind is, can there be a woman that I can love and after a while that the raw lust feeling wears off, I would still want to have sex with her?

Those of you with more experience, help me out, what you think?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Democles said:
This is something I hate about the game, like a drug, you eventually develop resistance.

I haven't yet found that special woman that rocks my world and makes me want to settle down. I have been in LTRs with HB9s that I eventually got tired of having sex with, I moved on.

Yes, I think most guys eventually get tired of hitting the same piece and need to move on, but are too chicken sh1t to move on.

The question now in my mind is, can there be a woman that I can love and after a while that the raw lust feeling wears off, I would still want to have sex with her?

Those of you with more experience, help me out, what you think?
While I don't have an answer, I totally know where you are coming from and hope that some do have an answer.

A bit of my background, I dated a woman who looked like Cameron Diaz, HB9 or HB10. Point being was, after awhile I got tired of the sex with her, and wished I was single. While I really liked her as a person, I got sick of the relationship. I wrote it off to age, but it kind of messed up my ideal relationship fantasy, because before that, I thought once I found an LTR, I would want and desire that woman for aslong as we were together. Wooo. Kind of errie when you think about it.

Anyone got any answers?
 

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Start with asking yourself why the lust wore off in the first place.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Start with asking yourself why the lust wore off in the first place.
You know, good point, I did ask myself that. It came down to this, after all the sex, we didn't have any mutual interest. I got tired of listening to their stupid stories of other people. They had no ideas, ambitions, desires that matched my own. It was like they were just there, like a plant, happy to go about their little life doing their nails, hair, tan, whatever. It was like just having me was enough for them to be, weird.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Democles said:
You know, good point, I did ask myself that. It came down to this, after all the sex, we didn't have any mutual interest. I got tired of listening to their stupid stories of other people. They had no ideas, ambitions, desires that matched my own. It was like they were just there, like a plant, happy to go about their little life doing their nails, hair, tan, whatever. It was like just having me was enough for them to be, weird.
Well, it goes both ways; it's a dual edge sword. There may be times that quantity will get you through immediate needs and there may be times when quality is needed to provide sustained sustenance. Determine your need and follow the appropriate path understanding that it's alright to have your needs change.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Well, it goes both ways; it's a dual edge sword. There may be times that quantity will get you through immediate needs and there may be times when quality is needed to provide sustained sustenance. Determine your need and follow the appropriate path understanding that it's alright to have your needs change.
I hear you bro, I will continue with my trial and errors I guess.
 

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Democles said:
I hear you bro, I will continue with my trial and errors I guess.
Suggestion: Don't go at it haphazardly just to see what happens. If you are of the mind that you want to just romp around and have fun, then do it. If you would rather not have the excitement of that roller coaster ride and try to find a potential LTR then do that.

No matter what it may be, make a decision one way or another, you can change your mind whenever. It's just easier when you are in control of your direction as opposed to adjusting your desires based on external influences. Be the driver of your destiny and not just a passenger.
 
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