Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Something you will not find out until banging lots of babes.

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This is something I hate about the game, like a drug, you eventually develop resistance.

I haven't yet found that special woman that rocks my world and makes me want to settle down. I have been in LTRs with HB9s that I eventually got tired of having sex with, I moved on.

Yes, I think most guys eventually get tired of hitting the same piece and need to move on, but are too chicken sh1t to move on.

The question now in my mind is, can there be a woman that I can love and after a while that the raw lust feeling wears off, I would still want to have sex with her?

Those of you with more experience, help me out, what you think?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Democles said:
This is something I hate about the game, like a drug, you eventually develop resistance.

I haven't yet found that special woman that rocks my world and makes me want to settle down. I have been in LTRs with HB9s that I eventually got tired of having sex with, I moved on.

Yes, I think most guys eventually get tired of hitting the same piece and need to move on, but are too chicken sh1t to move on.

The question now in my mind is, can there be a woman that I can love and after a while that the raw lust feeling wears off, I would still want to have sex with her?

Those of you with more experience, help me out, what you think?
While I don't have an answer, I totally know where you are coming from and hope that some do have an answer.

A bit of my background, I dated a woman who looked like Cameron Diaz, HB9 or HB10. Point being was, after awhile I got tired of the sex with her, and wished I was single. While I really liked her as a person, I got sick of the relationship. I wrote it off to age, but it kind of messed up my ideal relationship fantasy, because before that, I thought once I found an LTR, I would want and desire that woman for aslong as we were together. Wooo. Kind of errie when you think about it.

Anyone got any answers?
 

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Start with asking yourself why the lust wore off in the first place.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Start with asking yourself why the lust wore off in the first place.
You know, good point, I did ask myself that. It came down to this, after all the sex, we didn't have any mutual interest. I got tired of listening to their stupid stories of other people. They had no ideas, ambitions, desires that matched my own. It was like they were just there, like a plant, happy to go about their little life doing their nails, hair, tan, whatever. It was like just having me was enough for them to be, weird.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Democles said:
You know, good point, I did ask myself that. It came down to this, after all the sex, we didn't have any mutual interest. I got tired of listening to their stupid stories of other people. They had no ideas, ambitions, desires that matched my own. It was like they were just there, like a plant, happy to go about their little life doing their nails, hair, tan, whatever. It was like just having me was enough for them to be, weird.
Well, it goes both ways; it's a dual edge sword. There may be times that quantity will get you through immediate needs and there may be times when quality is needed to provide sustained sustenance. Determine your need and follow the appropriate path understanding that it's alright to have your needs change.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Well, it goes both ways; it's a dual edge sword. There may be times that quantity will get you through immediate needs and there may be times when quality is needed to provide sustained sustenance. Determine your need and follow the appropriate path understanding that it's alright to have your needs change.
I hear you bro, I will continue with my trial and errors I guess.
 

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Democles said:
I hear you bro, I will continue with my trial and errors I guess.
Suggestion: Don't go at it haphazardly just to see what happens. If you are of the mind that you want to just romp around and have fun, then do it. If you would rather not have the excitement of that roller coaster ride and try to find a potential LTR then do that.

No matter what it may be, make a decision one way or another, you can change your mind whenever. It's just easier when you are in control of your direction as opposed to adjusting your desires based on external influences. Be the driver of your destiny and not just a passenger.
 
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