Something wrong with my body language or just ugly?

[RestUnknown]

I was in a shop with my family yesterday, there was some kind of promotion and girls were walking around with free drinks.

You could hear her coming from far, asking everyone if they wanted something, explaining what it was etc. When she came to my family, she did the same. But when it was my turn, nothing, simply nothing.

I don't think I'm that ugly, I've been called good looking before. But I don't see any other reason, I think I have an open body language.

 

[sosousage]

post pic and i will tell you

 

[RestUnknown]

Stop looking for it. Youll know when shes into you. She will make it known.
If your like me and are attracted to women that are a little more outgoing she WILL find a way to give you an indicator.
But i found the less you focus on getting attention the more attention you will get.
Then one day you simply will not give 2 fcks. In a very good honest way

It's not that I was looking if she was into me. It was just very obvious she was talking to every single person she was offering a drink, except me.

 

[TheProspect]

What he looks like isnt the problem im sure. It usually is not the case. Within reason a guy can always date up based on his frame alone.

Correct. His frame right now is based on insecurity, in which a woman he's never met or seen before is capable of sending him to contemplate his physical value because of something she did (or didn't do).

It's not that I was looking if she was into me. It was just very obvious she was talking to every single person she was offering a drink, except me.

A day later you're still thinking about an ambiguous situation in which your interpretation is causing you to be extremely self-conscious. If you were indifferent and not emotionally invested in a trivial situation, you would have forgot about the thing immediately after it happened.

It's merely a trivial, ambiguous situation. Regardless of how you objectively look, get over it.

 

[Dingo]

Maybe she was just stunned by your magnificent presence... idk

 

[QuadDeuces]

Being with mum and dad isn't really sexy.

 

[ubercat]

So take charge. Walk over to the chick plant yourself straight in front of her and say they look great I'd like to try one. How's the promo going r people into it?

If you get a bit of chat from her go for the number.

If she is cold who cares. It's a random chick she doesn't know you. And you just grew your balls a little bit. Keep growing them.

You are not powerless in any social situation if you don't like how the variables are playing change them

 

[RestUnknown]

Like i said. You just did it again.

I don't really get what you mean.

I don't lie awake because of this situation. "I lie awake" because my social skills with girls are way, way, way below average. Everything I say or do is so she would like me (and yes it's easier said then done to not give a f*ck). That situation at the mall just was another "in my face" of that something is wrong with me.

 

[sosousage]

I don't really get what you mean.

I don't lie awake because of this situation. "I lie awake" because my social skills with girls are way, way, way below average. Everything I say or do is so she would like me (and yes it's easier said then done to not give a f*ck). That situation at the mall just was another "in my face" of that something is wrong with me.

just post your pics dude. if you are 1 on 1 with woman and you had at least one in your life then you can easily fake being cool. social skills with women are not required (not to the core, they are nice to have) because in most cases they are with boyfriends that are inexperienced and beta
1. look
2. appearance
2. jokes (!!!)

 

[RestUnknown]

Another situation that happened couple of days ago.

I know I shouldn't care, but I do want to know why girls act this way.

I work with this broad from time to time on a 1 to 1 basis and at one of these moments it came to the subject of Facebook. I said 'I don't have you on Facebook I think' (this was a genuine remark, I honestly didn't know). So I checked and added her. As of this moment, she still hasn't accepted the request.

This chick is constantly on her phone, that plus the fact I clearly said "I don't have you Facebook" and she hasn't accepted? What the ****. To be clear, I have no sexual interest in her, she's totally not my type. When we work together, it's always friendly and chatty, sends me texts work and non work related, and as always no sign of that she can't stand me.

So honestly, can someone clarify?

And yes I know I shouldn't care, but I'm in a long process of getting better with chicks, and part of that is understanding.

 

[sosousage]

Another situation that happened couple of days ago.

I know I shouldn't care, but I do want to know why girls act this way.

I work with this broad from time to time on a 1 to 1 basis and at one of these moments it came to the subject of Facebook. I said 'I don't have you on Facebook I think' (this was a genuine remark, I honestly didn't know). So I checked and added her. As of this moment, she still hasn't accepted the request.

This chick is constantly on her phone, that plus the fact I clearly said "I don't have you Facebook" and she hasn't accepted? What the ****. To be clear, I have no sexual interest in her, she's totally not my type. When we work together, it's always friendly and chatty, sends me texts work and non work related, and as always no sign of that she can't stand me.

So honestly, can someone clarify?

And yes I know I shouldn't care, but I'm in a long process of getting better with chicks, and part of that is understanding.

shes just busy chatting or using her 8 social media accounts