"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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homedog893

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anyone who's been through this or knows what i'm talking about PLZ respond. well, anyways I was doing great! My confidence skyrocketed, I was totally great, got some numbers, and I could feel all the love ^.~. Anyways, just a couple weeks ago everything seemed so different like I wasn't myself all of a sudden and it appeared everywhere. How do I get myself back together?:confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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what happened
 

homedog893

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LOL Nope. let me explain more i guess...
well, lately I've acted more like an AFC like I'd consciously try to do what's right and not let things flow like they usually do and now i don't tease, c/f, flirt as much, and i tense up... aww ****. time to start boot camp again.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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1. Workout - releases chemicals that make you feel good and manly.

2. New threads - makes you feel good, because you feel fresh in your clothes. Try a different style, everybody's thugged out these days. Mix and match, find something that looks good on YOU.

3. Take a shower every single day - Does wonders for you. Don't ever skip a day.

4. Work - Get busy with your life! It's not all about women. The money you earn will help you buy new threads and
accessories like watches.

5. Haircut - Either maintain the one you have right now or find a new one. Always keep your hair maintained, a haircut can change how you feel about yourself! When my hair gets long, I don't feel very confident and it makes me not want to go out.

Just a few tips to keep you feeling good about yourself. Always works for me.
 

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As Matrix has always told me before....."If you loose something you can always get it back."

Good luck.
 
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Simple Homie - find out what changed along the way and solve/eliminate that part of the equation and you shall revert back to your greatness!!
 

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i get that same feeling week in week out.
there's one thing that always sends me back into that state of total confidence and self-belief, on top of what goldheart suggested.

see yourself as some sort of divine being on earth. your every move graceful, your posture perfect, your smirk so cheesy it's a wonder why every woman isn't wanting to bite your lips off. whenever i do this, i feel like i've got an army behind me. and it's much easier to get yourself into this state if you have been working out, have been eating properly, have been drinking loads of water and have been getting a good deep sleep (8hours is spot on; try not to go over or under this. i don't know why, but i always feel like shyt if i sleep for more than 9hours.)

and one more for goldheart's list. quit jackin it for 5days at a time. a testosterone boost and more energy come from doing this, not to mention the mental gain, knowing you have the willpower to manage such a thing.

one last thing i've tried. whenever you do find yourself in that "zone", make some sort of distinctive movement with your arms, like twist certain fingers back or twist your arms out to the sides. this anchors the feeling you have in that zone and upon performing the distinctive movement again, you should be able to enter that same state. as crazy as this sounds, it doesn't hurt to try it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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