Something weird I noticed past few really hot girls do

[dillin]

The last three times or so when I was at a party when I would make eye contact with a REALLY good looking girl, always the best looking in the room she will hold eye contact for atleast 5 seconds or so give me a little smile and turn her head sideways but keep looking in my eyes with a smile, I noticed this tonight with a girl before I started talking to her and this other girl who I was chatting up.

I was wondering if you guys ever notice the most attractive women do this? I have never seen the more ugly girls do this, plus the attractive ones are always the one to make good eye contact with me and smile anyways.

 

[Tails]

confidence. they know they're hot? ugly girls are more shy and don't have the confidence the hot ones have. unless they're really deluded thinking that they ARE hot when they're not.

 

[dillin]

Originally posted by Tails
confidence. they know they're hot? ugly girls are more shy and don't have the confidence the hot ones have. unless they're really deluded thinking that they ARE hot when they're not.

I have my answer but I'm curios what you think, do you think these girls are interested when they do this?

 

[Tails]

some are, some aren't. some even just tease. that's the way girls are. don't read too much into it. but if she's comfortable enough looking at you with a smile, i'd say that's your turn to make a move. although like i said... sometimes they just like to tease.

but hey, there's only one way to find out right?

 

[baracus]

Originally posted by dillin
I have my answer but I'm curios what you think, do you think these girls are interested when they do this?

Sometimes they are and sometimes they aren't. I've seen very attractive girls treat every male they come across--whether it be a dork or a stud--in an incredibly friendly and welcoming manner.

 

[ScrewIt]

tease

i was in bio lab a few months ago and this HB8 did it to me as you mentioned above. she even touched my finger tips when working with the lab stuff. last month she was chatting with the other girls in class and overheard she has a husband.

that goes to show u cant always wait for signs. girls that are interested may be too shy to show signs. *****es that like to tease and practice on guys as the one above will show signs like those...but there are genuine girls which WILL show interest if they are really interested.

 

[fezz]

Yea, I think the ugly girls are mostly insecure. It seems like the ugly guys just dont give a fukk though and just stare away. Also, I have heard that if you catch a girl staring and she looks away quickly, that it could be a good sign. How could that be good?? I mean, if I accidentally make eye contact with an ugly girl, I never hold it, I immediately turn away.

 

[PEACEDJ]

haha nice question. Alright here's why the hott one's make eye contact and smile (The female Don Juan's)

1. Confidence (pure no b/s confidence in them)
2. Expierence (they have a long past with dating men)
3. Physical Attractiveness (they had and still have AFC's telling her how good she looks... god damn the world today )


These traits are partial steps to becoming a Don Juan and she protrays all perfectly which means this girl knows the game, but we all know inside hott girls are insecure as hell about their looks since that's the key point of why they get popular and start gaining knowledge about dating.

 

[myfriendblu]

Actually, I disagree with most of ya. Im a firm, FIRM believer that the hottest women, the 9's and 10's, often have very low self esteem and are often VERY unconfident. In fact, its this insecurity that feeds the drive to look good and be hot. (its takes A LOT of work to maintain a HB status. Go ask any girl that and she will agree.) Its the high self esteem girls that could care less about what people think of them and are usually 5's and 6's and 7's. I think the girls below 5 are kinda screwed up with emotional problems usually. Allowing yourself to get obese is a drug addiction, but thats a whole nother topic.

That being said, I don't think there is a HUGE connection between social ability and looks. There are lots of social 6's and 7's and anti-social 9's. It depends on the girl. A social girl will smile and make eye contact regardless of her looks. So i think when it comes to eye contact/smiling, its really a matter of social skills and people skills. And those skills aren't really all that dependent on looks. You see lots of secretaries and assistant with tremendous social skills/people friendly that are 6's and such. And you see lots of 9's that are very boring and have little conversation and people skills. Depends on the person, thats all. Not really look related.

 

[il_duce]

Originally posted by myfriendblu
Actually, I disagree with most of ya. Im a firm, FIRM believer that the hottest women, the 9's and 10's, often have very low self esteem and are often VERY unconfident. In fact, its this insecurity that feeds the drive to look good and be hot. (its takes A LOT of work to maintain a HB status. Go ask any girl that and she will agree.) Its the high self esteem girls that could care less about what people think of them and are usually 5's and 6's and 7's. I think the girls below 5 are kinda screwed up with emotional problems usually. Allowing yourself to get obese is a drug addiction, but thats a whole nother topic.

That being said, I don't think there is a HUGE connection between social ability and looks. There are lots of social 6's and 7's and anti-social 9's. It depends on the girl. A social girl will smile and make eye contact regardless of her looks. So i think when it comes to eye contact/smiling, its really a matter of social skills and people skills. And those skills aren't really all that dependent on looks. You see lots of secretaries and assistant with tremendous social skills/people friendly that are 6's and such. And you see lots of 9's that are very boring and have little conversation and people skills. Depends on the person, thats all. Not really look related.

I disagree. I find that the amount of girls with low self-esteem is about the same across the board. In fact, I really don't think I've met very many 9s or 10s who had low self-esteem.

You can't judge a book by its cover, man. There have been times when I saw some hot girl, and just by her looks I assumed that she had no personality. Then I started talking to her and realized she was actually pretty smart and fun to be around. And I've had experiences with the hot ones with no personality as well.

There is NO connection between social ability and looks. This should also be obvious because of the fact that there are a lot of good looking guys out there who are AFC, while you've got average looking joes with tons of game.

Maybe you need to get out of California, cause there are lots of dumb, boring people there, and it appears to be messing up your logic.

 

[myfriendblu]

Originally posted by il_duce
I disagree. I find that the amount of girls with low self-esteem is about the same across the board. In fact, I really don't think I've met very many 9s or 10s who had low self-esteem.

You can't judge a book by its cover, man. There have been times when I saw some hot girl, and just by her looks I assumed that she had no personality. Then I started talking to her and realized she was actually pretty smart and fun to be around. And I've had experiences with the hot ones with no personality as well.

There is NO connection between social ability and looks. This should also be obvious because of the fact that there are a lot of good looking guys out there who are AFC, while you've got average looking joes with tons of game.

Maybe you need to get out of California, cause there are lots of dumb, boring people there, and it appears to be messing up your logic.

Nope nope nope. There is a HUGE connection between low self esteem and looks. You just don't know women well enough yet, the whole psychological aspect of it I mean. Trust me, if someone told me this years ago when I was a teenager, I woulda looked at them as being crazy as well. Low self esteem BREEDS beauty. You will see that most girls have the potential to be a 9, threw lots of dieting/working out/clothes/nails/hair/ etc etc etc. Its the low self esteem ones that usually have the drive, the will, to achieve and maintain that status. Since low self esteem people tend to value their own self worth on what people percieve of them, looks wise. So they are often very driven to look good.

And yes, you can judge a book by its cover, big time. Everyone does, in every facet of life. Looks matter, big time. Anyone telling you otherwise is a lair. Better looking girls get richer/better looking men. And better looking men get better paying jobs/girls/etc etc. Fact of life. And yes, I have been to Cali, and to be honest, I really don't like it there. Way to much traffic/crowded/smog/hot weather/sun/skin cancer, and sharks scare the heck outta me so i don't like the ocean much either. Im more of a NYC/Chicago/east coast kinda guy.