"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Something to worry about?

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Girl is meeting with her ex today to get some of her belongings back. She's moving away though (state over where we made plans to move together if I decide to school there) I'm wondering though if they'll give each other a "goodbye kiss"

Seems like ill never know, kinda troubling. Anyway I can mention my 0 tolerance for this before they meet up? How should I handle it?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I would say :nono: BOBTRG but I'd first ask why would you date someone you aren't sure is over her ex or is it just a lack of your ability to trust her.
 
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Bobtrg?

He was supposed to drop off couple things and shed give me a call, that was over 2 hours ago. Am I wrong for assuming the worst right now?
 
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Theres no reason for a girl your dating to ever be associated with a guy thats f*cked her. Sounds fishy to me, i'd go ahead and put her on hooking up with him.....maybe a bit negative but that going to "get back belongings" excuse is so obvious.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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