This is for all the guys out there that are "bummed out" over being rejected or the idea of rejection. I know that it sucks for everybody to get rejected but imagine the bullet you dodged with some of these women. Some of these women may be selfish, jealous, disrespectful, legitimately crazy, daddy issues, ridiculously needy, a stalker, have a ton of kids or any kids for that matter, have an std or has a crazy ex boyfriend or a baby's father that has issues letting go. And then again some of them might have been great girls. But at least you tried talking to them and not even the best of us can win em all. Another point to think about is the fact that these women are going to continue to get old. The one's that didn't give you the time of day might end up being some old hag,or "cougar" as they call them these days, that nobody wants. That's not to say there are no desirable older women to fuck out there but sometimes those looks fade to dust and they completely HIT THE WALL. A guys "flaws" are nowhere near as brutal as a womans. All love and respect goes out to women. Please don't get that confused but there a women out there that still want to fuck Denzel Washington, Sean Connery, Burt Reynolds, Sam Jackson and perhaps even Robin Williams Now I know what you're thinking "but those guys are all rich". Yes they are but you'd be HARD PRESSED to find ANY young guy that would want to fuck Faye Dunaway, Joan Rivers, Kathy Bates or any other old lady you can think of. For those that can appreciate what I'm saying, you're welcome in advance. There's nowhere to go but up for you. For those that don't think I added enough commas, semicolons and periods I suggest you take a Midol for yours because obviously your tampon is leaking. Exit stage left off a cliff and as the late great George Carlin would say GO FUCK YASELF! Much love. Later.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Something to think about
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Come on, man, who's gonna read this thing? Use your enter key and make some paragraphs. Just look at that. Would you do the work necessary to read that?
Deadly_Ripped
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I read it, and thought it was uplifting. Didn't take much work either... I just read it like a stream of consciousness.
Is this rant REALLY that fucking long? Yes I would read it. I know there are a lot of Americans that frequent this site but I'm not going to cut any corners for the dumb dumbs out there that don't wish to read a little paragraph. It's truly embarrassing to see people won't even give something a chance just because it's a little long. Seriously how do you people get through books without a lot of pictures in them? I'm one of those Americans that don't mind actually reading things. I know that's a diffucult concept for many to grasp. If you don't wish to read any of it then I'd like to kindly direct any of you to my last two sentences. And I say that "with all due respect."
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
The reality is that many will pass your post by because it is hard on the eyes and it takes unecessary work and concentration to read when scanning and reading hundreds of posts.
When you vomit a can of alphabet soup onto the screen, much credibility is lost. I don't think you can comprehend this, though. In a medium of communication such as an Internet forum, credibility demands at least a cursory grasp of spelling, grammar (no perfection required), and enough respect for the reader to arrange thoughts in an easily digested manner.
I admit I was a little cranky, but it is a little annoying to try to trudge through the mud.
When you vomit a can of alphabet soup onto the screen, much credibility is lost. I don't think you can comprehend this, though. In a medium of communication such as an Internet forum, credibility demands at least a cursory grasp of spelling, grammar (no perfection required), and enough respect for the reader to arrange thoughts in an easily digested manner.
I admit I was a little cranky, but it is a little annoying to try to trudge through the mud.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
My reply
I must disagree with you. People that cannot read a small paragraph lack credibilty. But in all honesty this is not a matter of credibility, it's a matter of knowing how to read. It's not my fault that a great deal do not possess the three I's. Which of course is intensity, integrity and intelligence. What you did sir was spray a litany of verbal diarrhea of excuses as to why one cannot read my or any other persons post. All this mindless drivel about "it's too long" is just corny. And if cornballs are too lazy to read it then the message obviously wasn't for you. What I think is the problem is that the kids on this board are too busy trying to keep up with the ten posts rule. I will post whatever/however I please and do not give two ****s about such a rule. I don't operate like a lot of these guys here and most find that problematic. Again I refer you to the last two sentences in my original posts. However I must congratulate you if you've even made it this far in my rebuttal. And might I add you never stated whether you thought what I originally said had any merit or the whole thing was a piece of junk.
I must disagree with you. People that cannot read a small paragraph lack credibilty. But in all honesty this is not a matter of credibility, it's a matter of knowing how to read. It's not my fault that a great deal do not possess the three I's. Which of course is intensity, integrity and intelligence. What you did sir was spray a litany of verbal diarrhea of excuses as to why one cannot read my or any other persons post. All this mindless drivel about "it's too long" is just corny. And if cornballs are too lazy to read it then the message obviously wasn't for you. What I think is the problem is that the kids on this board are too busy trying to keep up with the ten posts rule. I will post whatever/however I please and do not give two ****s about such a rule. I don't operate like a lot of these guys here and most find that problematic. Again I refer you to the last two sentences in my original posts. However I must congratulate you if you've even made it this far in my rebuttal. And might I add you never stated whether you thought what I originally said had any merit or the whole thing was a piece of junk.
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I read the posts without any problems and I agree with what is written.
I don't really care about rejection anymore, I think once you are over that then the whole dating game gets far easier, you feel more composed, more relaxed, comfortable and your qualities shine through.
Also women do have it worse when they're older, the amount of women my age (21-22) who fancy Hugh Laurie from House is ridiculous. The man is in his fifties and is attracting all kinds of women of any age.
I don't really care about rejection anymore, I think once you are over that then the whole dating game gets far easier, you feel more composed, more relaxed, comfortable and your qualities shine through.
Also women do have it worse when they're older, the amount of women my age (21-22) who fancy Hugh Laurie from House is ridiculous. The man is in his fifties and is attracting all kinds of women of any age.