This is for all the guys out there that are "bummed out" over being rejected or the idea of rejection. I know that it sucks for everybody to get rejected but imagine the bullet you dodged with some of these women. Some of these women may be selfish, jealous, disrespectful, legitimately crazy, daddy issues, ridiculously needy, a stalker, have a ton of kids or any kids for that matter, have an std or has a crazy ex boyfriend or a baby's father that has issues letting go. And then again some of them might have been great girls. But at least you tried talking to them and not even the best of us can win em all. Another point to think about is the fact that these women are going to continue to get old. The one's that didn't give you the time of day might end up being some old hag,or "cougar" as they call them these days, that nobody wants. That's not to say there are no desirable older women to fuck out there but sometimes those looks fade to dust and they completely HIT THE WALL. A guys "flaws" are nowhere near as brutal as a womans. All love and respect goes out to women. Please don't get that confused but there a women out there that still want to fuck Denzel Washington, Sean Connery, Burt Reynolds, Sam Jackson and perhaps even Robin Williams Now I know what you're thinking "but those guys are all rich". Yes they are but you'd be HARD PRESSED to find ANY young guy that would want to fuck Faye Dunaway, Joan Rivers, Kathy Bates or any other old lady you can think of. For those that can appreciate what I'm saying, you're welcome in advance. There's nowhere to go but up for you. For those that don't think I added enough commas, semicolons and periods I suggest you take a Midol for yours because obviously your tampon is leaking. Exit stage left off a cliff and as the late great George Carlin would say GO FUCK YASELF! Much love. Later.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Something to think about
- Thread starter S. Pryor
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Come on, man, who's gonna read this thing? Use your enter key and make some paragraphs. Just look at that. Would you do the work necessary to read that?
Deadly_Ripped
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I read it, and thought it was uplifting. Didn't take much work either... I just read it like a stream of consciousness.
Is this rant REALLY that fucking long? Yes I would read it. I know there are a lot of Americans that frequent this site but I'm not going to cut any corners for the dumb dumbs out there that don't wish to read a little paragraph. It's truly embarrassing to see people won't even give something a chance just because it's a little long. Seriously how do you people get through books without a lot of pictures in them? I'm one of those Americans that don't mind actually reading things. I know that's a diffucult concept for many to grasp. If you don't wish to read any of it then I'd like to kindly direct any of you to my last two sentences. And I say that "with all due respect."
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
The reality is that many will pass your post by because it is hard on the eyes and it takes unecessary work and concentration to read when scanning and reading hundreds of posts.
When you vomit a can of alphabet soup onto the screen, much credibility is lost. I don't think you can comprehend this, though. In a medium of communication such as an Internet forum, credibility demands at least a cursory grasp of spelling, grammar (no perfection required), and enough respect for the reader to arrange thoughts in an easily digested manner.
I admit I was a little cranky, but it is a little annoying to try to trudge through the mud.
When you vomit a can of alphabet soup onto the screen, much credibility is lost. I don't think you can comprehend this, though. In a medium of communication such as an Internet forum, credibility demands at least a cursory grasp of spelling, grammar (no perfection required), and enough respect for the reader to arrange thoughts in an easily digested manner.
I admit I was a little cranky, but it is a little annoying to try to trudge through the mud.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
My reply
I must disagree with you. People that cannot read a small paragraph lack credibilty. But in all honesty this is not a matter of credibility, it's a matter of knowing how to read. It's not my fault that a great deal do not possess the three I's. Which of course is intensity, integrity and intelligence. What you did sir was spray a litany of verbal diarrhea of excuses as to why one cannot read my or any other persons post. All this mindless drivel about "it's too long" is just corny. And if cornballs are too lazy to read it then the message obviously wasn't for you. What I think is the problem is that the kids on this board are too busy trying to keep up with the ten posts rule. I will post whatever/however I please and do not give two ****s about such a rule. I don't operate like a lot of these guys here and most find that problematic. Again I refer you to the last two sentences in my original posts. However I must congratulate you if you've even made it this far in my rebuttal. And might I add you never stated whether you thought what I originally said had any merit or the whole thing was a piece of junk.
I must disagree with you. People that cannot read a small paragraph lack credibilty. But in all honesty this is not a matter of credibility, it's a matter of knowing how to read. It's not my fault that a great deal do not possess the three I's. Which of course is intensity, integrity and intelligence. What you did sir was spray a litany of verbal diarrhea of excuses as to why one cannot read my or any other persons post. All this mindless drivel about "it's too long" is just corny. And if cornballs are too lazy to read it then the message obviously wasn't for you. What I think is the problem is that the kids on this board are too busy trying to keep up with the ten posts rule. I will post whatever/however I please and do not give two ****s about such a rule. I don't operate like a lot of these guys here and most find that problematic. Again I refer you to the last two sentences in my original posts. However I must congratulate you if you've even made it this far in my rebuttal. And might I add you never stated whether you thought what I originally said had any merit or the whole thing was a piece of junk.
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I read the posts without any problems and I agree with what is written.
I don't really care about rejection anymore, I think once you are over that then the whole dating game gets far easier, you feel more composed, more relaxed, comfortable and your qualities shine through.
Also women do have it worse when they're older, the amount of women my age (21-22) who fancy Hugh Laurie from House is ridiculous. The man is in his fifties and is attracting all kinds of women of any age.
I don't really care about rejection anymore, I think once you are over that then the whole dating game gets far easier, you feel more composed, more relaxed, comfortable and your qualities shine through.
Also women do have it worse when they're older, the amount of women my age (21-22) who fancy Hugh Laurie from House is ridiculous. The man is in his fifties and is attracting all kinds of women of any age.