"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Something that really pisses me off.....

[S]alvatore

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May be suited to H&F but I want to see other peoples observations/feelings/opinions about this.

Whenever I see guys that are 6'2"-6'5" tall, but they are practically obese. And were not talking 2-5lbs overweight, i'm talking 30-40lbs. All I can think is, "why can't you use your height to your advantage instead of being a fat lazy slob?" I probably saw 20 or more people who fell into this category today while at the shops/mall.

I'm 5'8" and around 205lbs and I would kill to have a stature of 6'2"+. I can only put x amount of muscle on my small frame before I would start to get joint problems/and look like a fvcken tw@t. But if I was taller it could be x+50lbs. Sorry to rant, but it gives me the sh!ts to see these type of people take their height forgranted. Discuss.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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vorbis

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I'm 6 foot 3 as well and while its great to be tall, its definetly harder to put on muscle. My weight has stayed consistent at 185 pounds for the last 2 months despite me increasing my calorie consumption to about 2800 calories a day (I drink 3 mass gainer shakes now with 620 calories in each). Like Espi I've been skinny all my life.
 

[S]alvatore

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It's good to see that you're in that type of conditioning Espi I commend you on that. Out of every 50 people I see, I can tell that only about 3 or 4 of them do some form of training/exercise. There's so many fat people these days that it's not funny. I could go on about how many overweight children I saw today (Ranging from 5-10 years of age) and their fatass parents buying them Mc Donalds, KFC, ice cream and the likes. It's no wonder why the fitness industry has boomed as of late.

Vorbis, 2800 cals a day isn't enough for someone of your height, weight and bodytype to make sufficient gains. I know it may seem like a lot of food to you, but it's not. You should be eating 3500 cals at the minimum.
 
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