"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i noticed something strange today. everytime i talk to this girl that im DJ'n she stares me right in the eye!? at first i played it off like i didnt care, and looked at the other person i was talkn to.... then i looked back and she was staring, i was baffled by the event but didnt show any break in my confidence.

next time should i stare right back at her, make a c & f comment, or did what i do today...?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That is called "Eye Contact" and its GOOD!
 
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she probably feels very comfortable with you... most girls will shy away and break EC with you when you DJ them.. .tis a good sign... tis a good girl... probably very independent and strongheaded am i right?
 
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^^ lol 100% correct, wanna predict my future too?
 
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oh yah, still lookin for on what i should do
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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staring non-stop is you ****, and im lookin for answers not smart a$$ remarks....
 
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DAMN HE TOLD YOU LOL

Osiris, might want to start having some respect if you want answers
 
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if you give me respect ill show it back, but if you rag on me when im askn for help, well..... you cant expect me to sit there and take it right.
 
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Originally posted by Osiris7250
if you give me respect ill show it back, but if you rag on me when im askn for help, well..... you cant expect me to sit there and take it right.
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Well you're asking a stupid question. Whether or not she was staring doesn't have anything to do with anything. You wanna know what you should do? Whatever the fvck you want. This isn't something you need to tell us about.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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chill out bro, its the friggin internet.....
 
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Originally posted by Osiris7250
chill out bro, its the friggin internet.....
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Take your own advice.
 
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