"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i noticed something strange today. everytime i talk to this girl that im DJ'n she stares me right in the eye!? at first i played it off like i didnt care, and looked at the other person i was talkn to.... then i looked back and she was staring, i was baffled by the event but didnt show any break in my confidence.

next time should i stare right back at her, make a c & f comment, or did what i do today...?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That is called "Eye Contact" and its GOOD!
 
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she probably feels very comfortable with you... most girls will shy away and break EC with you when you DJ them.. .tis a good sign... tis a good girl... probably very independent and strongheaded am i right?
 
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^^ lol 100% correct, wanna predict my future too?
 
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oh yah, still lookin for on what i should do
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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staring non-stop is you ****, and im lookin for answers not smart a$$ remarks....
 
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DAMN HE TOLD YOU LOL

Osiris, might want to start having some respect if you want answers
 
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if you give me respect ill show it back, but if you rag on me when im askn for help, well..... you cant expect me to sit there and take it right.
 
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Originally posted by Osiris7250
if you give me respect ill show it back, but if you rag on me when im askn for help, well..... you cant expect me to sit there and take it right.
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Well you're asking a stupid question. Whether or not she was staring doesn't have anything to do with anything. You wanna know what you should do? Whatever the fvck you want. This isn't something you need to tell us about.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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chill out bro, its the friggin internet.....
 
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Originally posted by Osiris7250
chill out bro, its the friggin internet.....
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Take your own advice.
 
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