"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Something new I've noticed in the Covid era

Tilex

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Women of all ages are wearing perfume again.
It's strange & ironic at the same time because I haven't smelled it on anyone in public since the mid 2000's.
It's like an entire generation of women never wore perfume. They completely stopped wearing it for more than a decade.

With the current mask laws, I think women are trying different and old school strategies to attract men again.

Have you noticed this too?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BMX

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Having just been stationed in Europe for 2.5 years, and now back in the states, my cologne game is too strong for these women. They are behind the times and basic. Have a great no simp Sunday.
 

zekko

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I've never noticed that women stopped wearing perfume. Maybe they learned that they shouldn't cake it on. If you're just out and about in public, you shouldn't really smell someone's perfume unless they have too much on. You can smell it if you're in close quarters or intimate. Maybe with Covid, they're putting extra on so you can smell it through the masks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Desdinova

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I wrote a post a while back about masks and women's value:


@Tilex
There's most certainly something going on. I honestly believe that women are experiencing a bit of a drought when it comes to attention and sex.
 

SW15

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I have not noticed this.
 
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