Something is missing

[On_the_Top]

I’ m tired of it…
Tired off all the bull****, games, and being suspicious of everyone’s motives. No…not from women (I know how to deal with that) but I’m tired of me. Yes I know women will always play their little games and have their test, it’s the way of the world and there are ways around it them but I don’t know how many times I have set myself up for failure with a lot of girls by playing games and doing some mind screwing of my own. I just tired of it… tired of every time that I meet a new broad or get a new number I have a plan out my avenue of attack like a great tactician, probing, defending, attacking, till the battle is over and we’re at a stale mate. Times I have spent “planning”, strategizing, sarging, or whatever, I could have been studying, catching up on some work, working out, reading, maintaining order, playing video games, or a million other things. I just don’t feel like it anymore. Don’t feel like going out with the sole purpose of trying to hit on women or be “seen.” I just want go out have fun, mind my own business, and be left to my own devices. I don’t feel like making sure my clothes coordinate every time I step out (still not going out looking like crap.) I don’t feel like dealing with games and bs nor do I feel like playing them or dishing out my own. I just want to live my life with no hassles and drama, work hard to make it to the top, and do my own thing. My greatest enemy has not been another alpha male who wants to challenge me, the evil bastard who is gunning for me to fail (though it seems like everyone is), or a jealous boyfriend who thinks I’m after his girl. My whole life, and before knowing what an “alpha” or “AFC” was, I have had to deal with stuff like that and so I know how to deal with it when confronted. My greatest opponent has been me and all the self absorbed BS and hype “I” created for my self. I have been here for over two and a half yrs and before that was heavy into David-D’s stuff and lately I have realized that I am back to square one. It’s not about the numbers, playing, being “it” or even finding the “one.” I’m not knocking sosuave or what it others have learned from it because it has turned me somewhere in the right direction. For it was here that I learned to walk with my “head up and shoulders back” and I learned the importance of looking another man in the eye. But maybe I have taken it all too far, for most people find me intimidating, rude, threatening, or at times cold. Maybe I have taken “I’m the prize” to seriously cause I look down on those in my peer group yet have no problem conversing with, relating to, or getting along with those much older than I am. Or it could be insecurity, masked buy insecurity, all wrapped up in a blanket of insecurity. Whatever it is, I have to stop finding excuses for it and fix it, fast. I don’t know but it just seems like something is missing and I need to take a permanent leave to find it.

Best of luck to all of you and thank you for the knowledge given.

 

[JackPrescott]

Welcome to the Dating Scene! What I think you need, is to start hanging out with two or three "Attention Wh0res!" These parasites will suck you dry of TIME, $$$$ and of course ATTENTION! You get to take them to lunch and dinner, pay for their meals, drinks of course, because any Attention Wh0re worth her salt is a hardcore alcoholic, and intangibles, movie tix, concert tix, covers for da clubs, ect. And you know what you will get for your effort? Not a DAMN THING, thats right, you get the pleasure of their company, and they get to flirt with other men, and women, and collect phone numbers, and set up dates right in front of you! Sometimes they even hook up in front of you! Isnt that special? But at the end of the night, you will go home ALONE as will she. For you see, she wouldnt f**k you even if God came down from Heaven and forced her to, she would rather suffer an eternity in the black fiery abyss with Satan, than get naked for you, and spread her legs.

Then, when that noise gets old, maybe you can hook up with a SEXUALLY addicted woman, who wants you for a F**k Buddy! Sound too good to be true? It really is! Yes, initially, the sex will be HOTT and you can even spend the whole night holding each other naked, and have sleepy early morning sex! She WILL spread her sexy legs for you, and let you do whatever you want to! But, the bad thing is, there are three or four other guys doing these naughty things to her as well. Dont let those old emotions get caught up. Because as she kisses you goodbye, and you drive away, her cell is ringing off the hook from "Brad" the Rastafarian Hippie, who likes to smoke weed naked with her, and have anal sex with her hot little a$$ on Fridays. So this is not quite such a great idea either.

I know, I know, you could try old fashioned dating. The whole "dinner and a movie" type thing. First, you have to meet a girl you like, then chemistry, and mutual interests and all that Jazz come into play. After an exchange of phone numbers, and 35 minutes of your life chatting on the cell phone, you set up dinner (Italian?) a movie (Chick flick) and after hours drinks. The dinner at the cheesy italian place, "The Vineyard" is 10.99 for apps. the drink tab is 45.00 (She likes Opal Shiraz), and the main entrees which give you heartburn are 45.00.....101.00 plus a 17 dollar tip so you dont look like a cheap moron in front of her. and the bad flick is 30bucks. So far 148 in the hole. And she isnt real receptive to holding hands at the movies. So then the after hours place, where the cover is 20 bucks, and another 38 on drinks. All so she can chat up three guys she knows from school. And at the end of the night, you get a nice peck on the lips, and a slammed apartment door in your face. Over 200 smackeroos for this? Ever wondered why your friends are all married?

 

[lets_do_this]

Jack you speak the truth.

 

[Boner da Stoner]

lets_do_this you have a lot to learn if you believe that is the truth... well it is to a returd like Jack

that was horrible BS right there, I hope you've learned more than those insecure thoughts on here... lol even the attention ***** part is all wrong, what your describing is a girl who knows you've wrapped yourself around her finger.

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This site has become horribly aimed back towards picking-up chicks, thats not why I joined it, I joined to get to know my fellow humans better and see that there are people who can learn to enjoy the finer things in life. I read this forum to see the possibilities, but they are few and far between, and I believe that this site has become weeded, and needs a new system to determine the good and the bad threads.

Props on seeing past the veil of lust that life has given you, but never forget that PU's are a smart mans way of getting the booty without wasting all of your time trying to be social about it.

 

[JackPrescott]

Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
lets_do_this you have a lot to learn if you believe that is the truth... well it is to a returd like Jack

that was horrible BS right there, I hope you've learned more than those insecure thoughts on here... lol even the attention ***** part is all wrong, what your describing is a girl who knows you've wrapped yourself around her finger.

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This site has become horribly aimed back towards picking-up chicks, thats not why I joined it, I joined to get to know my fellow humans better and see that there are people who can learn to enjoy the finer things in life. I read this forum to see the possibilities, but they are few and far between, and I believe that this site has become weeded, and needs a new system to determine the good and the bad threads.

Props on seeing past the veil of lust that life has given you, but never forget that PU's are a smart mans way of getting the booty without wasting all of your time trying to be social about it.

"Horrible Bull$hit"...is that why you are on this site, instead of spending time with the ladies?

 

[Boner da Stoner]

well JACK if you read over your post again you will see that UNLESS IT IS total BS than you've got your game all wrong.

ta dum