"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Something I use at the clubz.

Suckaazzclown

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Whenever I peep a breezy...

It's GOTTA be a breezy that's been eyeing me.

I just walk over to her...and kinda let my hand out..like those old school movies..You kinda place your hand below her hand..and slightly below her wrist. Kind of like a "Can I dance with you my lady..thang." Don't say nothing. If you read the signs right...it should work. Then you kind of look at her and smile.

If she's cool she'll dance with you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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khash

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Shezz said:
Firstly you lost me at 'Breezy', and secondly 'lady thang'? Who are you Busta Rhymes?

You could just try going over and starting a conversation, throw in a few qualifiers, backturns, disqualifiers and proceed with the interaction...whenever you peep a 'Breezy'

Sarge On...
:crackup: :whistle:
 

Mission

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Hahaha
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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