"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Something I use at the clubz.

Suckaazzclown

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Whenever I peep a breezy...

It's GOTTA be a breezy that's been eyeing me.

I just walk over to her...and kinda let my hand out..like those old school movies..You kinda place your hand below her hand..and slightly below her wrist. Kind of like a "Can I dance with you my lady..thang." Don't say nothing. If you read the signs right...it should work. Then you kind of look at her and smile.

If she's cool she'll dance with you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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khash

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Shezz said:
Firstly you lost me at 'Breezy', and secondly 'lady thang'? Who are you Busta Rhymes?

You could just try going over and starting a conversation, throw in a few qualifiers, backturns, disqualifiers and proceed with the interaction...whenever you peep a 'Breezy'

Sarge On...
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Hahaha
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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