"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Something I should know the answer to..

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Well, I know I'm prolly thinking about this wayyy too hard. And I hate posting like this because I dont like the posts where people ask for straight up answers. Anyway If you could be so kind to steer me in the right direction with some simple pointers I'd be very gracious.

Soo, hangin out with this chick so far 4 times and lots of kino and easy to tell she's very interested in me. So I hungout with her tonight and we have a great time we went to a coffee shop. Thing is she has a broken leg and just recently got out of a wheel chair from a pretty crazy accident on a motorcycle and is still dealing with the legalities from the accident and the medical bills which is leads to my question. She said "I like you alot" and then she said "I wanna wait to have a boyfriend till im fully healed." I didnt even ask her out or even bring any of that up. I told her im in no hurry to rush this along either. And I'm not but it would be good to know I got some kind of security with her ya know. Soo anyway how would you precieve this and how would you go about dealing with this? Thanks in advance :rock:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm not sure what it means but I would continue to see her.

But, I wouldn't stop trying to see other girls as well since you aren't in a relationship. You don't want to get attached to her, give up other girls for her, and when she's healed/recovered go with someone else because she never made any commitment to you.
 
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???? what's her deal. you don't have to have acrobatic sex yet but why wait until she's fully healed to have a boyfriend? what's wrong with kissing, making out? etc?

sounds like a scam... she wants you to hang around while on the mend and possibly sell you ginsu knives.

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Delta said:
and possibly sell you ginsu knives.
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HAHHAHAHAH oh thats leet


Yea, something is up here. I would keep her spinning but find other chicks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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you first lost.

so what's the deal? she can't kiss or give head while being in a wheelchair?

seriously - what is her deal? why does she have to be in marathon shape to begin a relationship?

like i said, sounds scammy.

WHAT. IS. HER. DEAL. ?

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