"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Something I should know the answer to..

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Well, I know I'm prolly thinking about this wayyy too hard. And I hate posting like this because I dont like the posts where people ask for straight up answers. Anyway If you could be so kind to steer me in the right direction with some simple pointers I'd be very gracious.

Soo, hangin out with this chick so far 4 times and lots of kino and easy to tell she's very interested in me. So I hungout with her tonight and we have a great time we went to a coffee shop. Thing is she has a broken leg and just recently got out of a wheel chair from a pretty crazy accident on a motorcycle and is still dealing with the legalities from the accident and the medical bills which is leads to my question. She said "I like you alot" and then she said "I wanna wait to have a boyfriend till im fully healed." I didnt even ask her out or even bring any of that up. I told her im in no hurry to rush this along either. And I'm not but it would be good to know I got some kind of security with her ya know. Soo anyway how would you precieve this and how would you go about dealing with this? Thanks in advance :rock:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm not sure what it means but I would continue to see her.

But, I wouldn't stop trying to see other girls as well since you aren't in a relationship. You don't want to get attached to her, give up other girls for her, and when she's healed/recovered go with someone else because she never made any commitment to you.
 
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???? what's her deal. you don't have to have acrobatic sex yet but why wait until she's fully healed to have a boyfriend? what's wrong with kissing, making out? etc?

sounds like a scam... she wants you to hang around while on the mend and possibly sell you ginsu knives.

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Delta said:
and possibly sell you ginsu knives.
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HAHHAHAHAH oh thats leet


Yea, something is up here. I would keep her spinning but find other chicks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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you first lost.

so what's the deal? she can't kiss or give head while being in a wheelchair?

seriously - what is her deal? why does she have to be in marathon shape to begin a relationship?

like i said, sounds scammy.

WHAT. IS. HER. DEAL. ?

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