"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Something I noticed this past week

PinkFloyd

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Well this girl that I like, and I think/hope likes me, is in one of my classes. The first few days of the week, she wore her hair "up" and she was average looking. I could easily talk to her. I felt like she was just nerdy girl and I was better than her, socially and physically. Then on Thursday and Friday she wore her hair down and looked like one hot momma. She looked very intimidating and it affected my game.

If I can see that all girls are lesser than me, but not treat them lesser, flirting will be a breeze!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Real Ice Man

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Haha...yeah that definately works.
 

LikRetsam

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Tell me this is a terrible attempt at trolling please because otherwise this may be one of the saddest things I have ever read.
 

PinkFloyd

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Well I'm not trolling.

I'd love to hear you explain why it's so sad. Honestly, go on, I want to watch you make an ass of yourself.

To others: that is a good tip, thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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