"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Something I noticed this past week

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PinkFloyd

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Well this girl that I like, and I think/hope likes me, is in one of my classes. The first few days of the week, she wore her hair "up" and she was average looking. I could easily talk to her. I felt like she was just nerdy girl and I was better than her, socially and physically. Then on Thursday and Friday she wore her hair down and looked like one hot momma. She looked very intimidating and it affected my game.

If I can see that all girls are lesser than me, but not treat them lesser, flirting will be a breeze!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Haha...yeah that definately works.
 
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Tell me this is a terrible attempt at trolling please because otherwise this may be one of the saddest things I have ever read.
 
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Well I'm not trolling.

I'd love to hear you explain why it's so sad. Honestly, go on, I want to watch you make an ass of yourself.

To others: that is a good tip, thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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