"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i have seen a lot of times people say to point to yourself when you mention a love interest.. wouldnt that be easy for the girl to catch? also, what should u say before a pattern?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you are not doing any body movements then it will be easy to catch, otherwise, people don't really concentrate on the other persons movements (unless you are trained to read body language).

You don't do LARGE movements but rather small ones, like 40-50 cm tops out from your body, depending how large you are. And even if she notice, it isn't always bad.

Before a pattern you should use a softener and what I call a pre-description:

Pre-Description

Yesturday I saw this wonderful romantic movie about two persons who met and I was just soo fascinated about it. It just said click when they met, and I started to think about that...

Softener

...You know, this may seem out of the blue but, I just wanted to ask you something to get a better understanding of you...

Pattern

Incredible connection

Final output

Yesturday I saw this wonderful romantic movie about two persons who met and I was just soo fascinated about it. It just said click when they met, and I started to think about that. You know, this may seem out of the blue but, I just wanted to ask you something to get a better understanding of you, did you ever experienced incredible connection with someone? Like that movie when... [describe]

Hope it helped

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It's cool... Don't jump into patterns too early or stare at your hands when you do your movements... people look where you look if you talk to them.

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