I had a discussion with a female friend, and she said that she can find someone attractive, cute, hot or whatever, without there being anything sexual to it. I said no, for me it's either there or its not. What do you guys think? I just can't wrap my head around saying someone is hot, but not wanting to have sex with them? I think the two go hand in hand...
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
something i can't understand...
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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user43770
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She doesn't want to come off as a wh0re, but I assure you, she is. It's the whole double standard thing. Girls think about sex the same as guys; the difference is that guys will generally jump at the opportunity.
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
She's just plain lazy. Tell her that.
I can not deny that a Girl looks good
but that doesn't mean that i want to fvck her
for example. tis how i feel about angie Jolie
besides, it's different for most girls. Just because a guy looks good doesn't mean that she'd drop her clothes for him. he could turn out to be a Total loser.
I can't say the same for most men.
but that doesn't mean that i want to fvck her
for example. tis how i feel about angie Jolie
besides, it's different for most girls. Just because a guy looks good doesn't mean that she'd drop her clothes for him. he could turn out to be a Total loser.
I can't say the same for most men.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
scrouds
Master Don Juan
You ever met a hot girl that was such a biitch that you wouldn't want to give her the saitsfaction of your skills in bed?
Sometimes personality is a killer turnoff, at least for me.
Sometimes personality is a killer turnoff, at least for me.
DonGorgon
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exactly.. most women are hos but a big part of hoing is pretending not to be a ho..TyTe`EyEz said:She doesn't want to come off as a wh0re, but I assure you, she is. It's the whole double standard thing. Girls think about sex the same as guys; the difference is that guys will generally jump at the opportunity.
women are not as eager cause they know they can get it from any man at any time..lol men know there is a very slim chance of getting layed hanse mens desperation
Don't ever listen to what a women says about what she finds attractive.talrock said:I had a discussion with a female friend, and she said that she can find someone attractive, cute, hot or whatever, without there being anything sexual to it. I said no, for me it's either there or its not. What do you guys think? I just can't wrap my head around saying someone is hot, but not wanting to have sex with them? I think the two go hand in hand...