I had a discussion with a female friend, and she said that she can find someone attractive, cute, hot or whatever, without there being anything sexual to it. I said no, for me it's either there or its not. What do you guys think? I just can't wrap my head around saying someone is hot, but not wanting to have sex with them? I think the two go hand in hand...
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
something i can't understand...
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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user43770
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She doesn't want to come off as a wh0re, but I assure you, she is. It's the whole double standard thing. Girls think about sex the same as guys; the difference is that guys will generally jump at the opportunity.
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
She's just plain lazy. Tell her that.
I can not deny that a Girl looks good
but that doesn't mean that i want to fvck her
for example. tis how i feel about angie Jolie
besides, it's different for most girls. Just because a guy looks good doesn't mean that she'd drop her clothes for him. he could turn out to be a Total loser.
I can't say the same for most men.
but that doesn't mean that i want to fvck her
for example. tis how i feel about angie Jolie
besides, it's different for most girls. Just because a guy looks good doesn't mean that she'd drop her clothes for him. he could turn out to be a Total loser.
I can't say the same for most men.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
scrouds
Master Don Juan
You ever met a hot girl that was such a biitch that you wouldn't want to give her the saitsfaction of your skills in bed?
Sometimes personality is a killer turnoff, at least for me.
Sometimes personality is a killer turnoff, at least for me.
DonGorgon
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exactly.. most women are hos but a big part of hoing is pretending not to be a ho..TyTe`EyEz said:She doesn't want to come off as a wh0re, but I assure you, she is. It's the whole double standard thing. Girls think about sex the same as guys; the difference is that guys will generally jump at the opportunity.
women are not as eager cause they know they can get it from any man at any time..lol men know there is a very slim chance of getting layed hanse mens desperation
Don't ever listen to what a women says about what she finds attractive.talrock said:I had a discussion with a female friend, and she said that she can find someone attractive, cute, hot or whatever, without there being anything sexual to it. I said no, for me it's either there or its not. What do you guys think? I just can't wrap my head around saying someone is hot, but not wanting to have sex with them? I think the two go hand in hand...