"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Something I am REALLY curious about - who exactly ARE you guys who post here?

jakeyboy

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I'm 19 now, found this forum after my break up with my high school teacher years back. (she was 28 and i was what? 16?) =D i was a downright AFC douche but the guys on this forum really helped me get my life back on track.

And never now, is there a girl i am interested in who doesn't have some attraction for me either. -grin.

i found it easier to pick up girls after months of reading the DJ bible. and i learnt how to become more attractive to women as well as being the "prize"
and that if they wanted my attention, they'd have to show me they were worthy of it.

sure i do lapse into AFC mode once in a blue moon but that is when i put too much attachment to something and tend to lose focus on other things in my life. working on that now... still on the road to becomng a better DJ!

am happily attached to a typical "girl next door" type now. but she does know that i'm the prize. and treats me real good too. always keep things fresh and exciting, cause things tend to get stale in a relship after awhile.

but hey, remember... it's the little things that count. -wink.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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