"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Something I am REALLY curious about - who exactly ARE you guys who post here?

jakeyboy

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I'm 19 now, found this forum after my break up with my high school teacher years back. (she was 28 and i was what? 16?) =D i was a downright AFC douche but the guys on this forum really helped me get my life back on track.

And never now, is there a girl i am interested in who doesn't have some attraction for me either. -grin.

i found it easier to pick up girls after months of reading the DJ bible. and i learnt how to become more attractive to women as well as being the "prize"
and that if they wanted my attention, they'd have to show me they were worthy of it.

sure i do lapse into AFC mode once in a blue moon but that is when i put too much attachment to something and tend to lose focus on other things in my life. working on that now... still on the road to becomng a better DJ!

am happily attached to a typical "girl next door" type now. but she does know that i'm the prize. and treats me real good too. always keep things fresh and exciting, cause things tend to get stale in a relship after awhile.

but hey, remember... it's the little things that count. -wink.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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