"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Something I am REALLY curious about - who exactly ARE you guys who post here?

jakeyboy

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I'm 19 now, found this forum after my break up with my high school teacher years back. (she was 28 and i was what? 16?) =D i was a downright AFC douche but the guys on this forum really helped me get my life back on track.

And never now, is there a girl i am interested in who doesn't have some attraction for me either. -grin.

i found it easier to pick up girls after months of reading the DJ bible. and i learnt how to become more attractive to women as well as being the "prize"
and that if they wanted my attention, they'd have to show me they were worthy of it.

sure i do lapse into AFC mode once in a blue moon but that is when i put too much attachment to something and tend to lose focus on other things in my life. working on that now... still on the road to becomng a better DJ!

am happily attached to a typical "girl next door" type now. but she does know that i'm the prize. and treats me real good too. always keep things fresh and exciting, cause things tend to get stale in a relship after awhile.

but hey, remember... it's the little things that count. -wink.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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