"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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something creepy going on with girl i am dating feel like im spyed on NEED ADVICE

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okay well i dont really care much or whatever like i said i have been going through my stages in life to get my **** together and i am doing well for myself. this girl i have been dating its been 5 months or so well something creepy is happening. I feel like she is spying on me. This girl messaged me yesterday on facebook who was cute and she messaged me first i was talking to her she was asking about me and wanted to text me asked for my number so we texted for a little bit and thats fine. Then girl I am dating i told her about going ballpark village so we are going friday she then texts me Thanks Deb ;) sorry that was my coworker and that was the girl that was texting me so. I am confused on what to do and feel creeped out that she possibly had a spy on me???

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl was talking to me online on facebook randomly was talking to her and today girl i am dating said thanks deb sorry that was my coworker when i talked to her today about getting cards tickets. Feel like im being spyed on from her sp i need to know what to do
 
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It is hard to understand your story. It sounds like the girl tricked you having her co worker email you to see if you would cheat on her? Can you explain better? Really confusing to me.
 
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Okay well its hard to explain on typing i prefertalk.

But yeah thats pretty much it except we are not bf gf just dating
 
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thelonewolflegend said:
Okay well its hard to explain on typing i prefertalk.

But yeah thats pretty much it except we are not bf gf just dating
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What is your native language and would it be easier to explain in your native language perhaps?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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thelonewolflegend said:
Okay well its hard to explain on typing i prefertalk.

But yeah thats pretty much it except we are not bf gf just dating
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I say that is crap making her having a co worker do that. Sounds like she has trust issues and she is not even your gf. Imagine what she would do if you were in a relationship. I would not have anything more to do with her. Tell her to get lost. What she did is low and sneaky. She has problems. I would not date her no more.
 
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now i dont mind having her as a f buddy though i do enjoy that so i wouldnt mind keeping her around for that but yeah i feel creeped out and weird from this ordeal you know? So I only have her i am ****ing right now so....
 
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