"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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something creepy going on with girl i am dating feel like im spyed on NEED ADVICE

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okay well i dont really care much or whatever like i said i have been going through my stages in life to get my **** together and i am doing well for myself. this girl i have been dating its been 5 months or so well something creepy is happening. I feel like she is spying on me. This girl messaged me yesterday on facebook who was cute and she messaged me first i was talking to her she was asking about me and wanted to text me asked for my number so we texted for a little bit and thats fine. Then girl I am dating i told her about going ballpark village so we are going friday she then texts me Thanks Deb ;) sorry that was my coworker and that was the girl that was texting me so. I am confused on what to do and feel creeped out that she possibly had a spy on me???

please post advice thank you
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girl was talking to me online on facebook randomly was talking to her and today girl i am dating said thanks deb sorry that was my coworker when i talked to her today about getting cards tickets. Feel like im being spyed on from her sp i need to know what to do
 

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It is hard to understand your story. It sounds like the girl tricked you having her co worker email you to see if you would cheat on her? Can you explain better? Really confusing to me.
 
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Okay well its hard to explain on typing i prefertalk.

But yeah thats pretty much it except we are not bf gf just dating
 

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thelonewolflegend said:
Okay well its hard to explain on typing i prefertalk.

But yeah thats pretty much it except we are not bf gf just dating
What is your native language and would it be easier to explain in your native language perhaps?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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thelonewolflegend said:
Okay well its hard to explain on typing i prefertalk.

But yeah thats pretty much it except we are not bf gf just dating
I say that is crap making her having a co worker do that. Sounds like she has trust issues and she is not even your gf. Imagine what she would do if you were in a relationship. I would not have anything more to do with her. Tell her to get lost. What she did is low and sneaky. She has problems. I would not date her no more.
 
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now i dont mind having her as a f buddy though i do enjoy that so i wouldnt mind keeping her around for that but yeah i feel creeped out and weird from this ordeal you know? So I only have her i am ****ing right now so....
 
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