"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Something bothers me....question

Walking Anomaly

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Hey everybody, hows life goin?

Anyways, im writing because of something i find puzzling and also somewhat pathetic. I have noticed there is a guy whom i know through friends, but we are not friends ourselves - who spends all his effort complaining about how his life is terrible, how he's constantly hurt by women, that he wishes things could be as they used to and that his life sucks.

He does all this even though you know that he has everything he could ask for on account of his parents because he still lives at home and the parents make money. And as far as i know since we arent really friends he still pulls women.

I dont mean to sound like a hater lol, but anyone have any idea as to how he could still pull chicks if hes acting as such an afc?? btw hes 25 and im pretty sure he still tries for high school chicks lol...

let me know what you think....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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librito

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he is just bitter about women. I bet that he is not able to seduce the kind of women he really likes because women can smell from a mile away when a man feels this way about them.
I used to be bitter about women myself and it only stopped after I shut my mouth and understood that women are how they are and my bitternest was only hurting my chances with them.
just tell him to visit this site and not to take women so seriously, women are made to be enjoyed eventhough they are not the perfect toys. .....
 

DJDamage

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Active social life or he isn't afraid of approaching women.

But I think its option number 3 which he is doing the whole online dating. I once did an experiment in which I had a different date for every day of the week just from online dating. However online you meet plenty of women who digitally altered their pictures, nutcases, golddiggers and hoe's.
 
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