"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Something bothers me....question

Walking Anomaly

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Hey everybody, hows life goin?

Anyways, im writing because of something i find puzzling and also somewhat pathetic. I have noticed there is a guy whom i know through friends, but we are not friends ourselves - who spends all his effort complaining about how his life is terrible, how he's constantly hurt by women, that he wishes things could be as they used to and that his life sucks.

He does all this even though you know that he has everything he could ask for on account of his parents because he still lives at home and the parents make money. And as far as i know since we arent really friends he still pulls women.

I dont mean to sound like a hater lol, but anyone have any idea as to how he could still pull chicks if hes acting as such an afc?? btw hes 25 and im pretty sure he still tries for high school chicks lol...

let me know what you think....
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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librito

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he is just bitter about women. I bet that he is not able to seduce the kind of women he really likes because women can smell from a mile away when a man feels this way about them.
I used to be bitter about women myself and it only stopped after I shut my mouth and understood that women are how they are and my bitternest was only hurting my chances with them.
just tell him to visit this site and not to take women so seriously, women are made to be enjoyed eventhough they are not the perfect toys. .....
 

DJDamage

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Active social life or he isn't afraid of approaching women.

But I think its option number 3 which he is doing the whole online dating. I once did an experiment in which I had a different date for every day of the week just from online dating. However online you meet plenty of women who digitally altered their pictures, nutcases, golddiggers and hoe's.
 
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